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No Single Males!  

vengeur 48M  
396 posts
5/21/2007 8:45 pm

Last Read:
2/24/2008 4:17 pm

No Single Males!


There are plenty of Male/Female couples here on Affairlook. Like everyone else, they set their cupid preferences as they see fit, which is fine by me.

While some of these couples exclude single males from their cupid preferences, they even go so far as to put the phrase "No Single Males!" in the text of their profiles. I guess they do this so as to deter all of those single males from sending them messages by the bulk load. (Single males still comprise the largest demographic on Affairlook by a wide margin.)

Despite this phrase for deterrent purposes, I often see on a daily basis how some of these very same couples view my profile. As can be imagined, I find this a bit frustrating. Should I just respect this deterrent phrase and keep wondering if they are truly interested in me? Or should just throw caution to abandonment and initiate contact? Don't laugh, but this is a dilemma for me now and it has been for quite a while.

rm_phillysfun 70M/66F
3 posts
5/22/2007 1:37 am

We vote for "initiate contact"


vengeur replies on 5/22/2007 8:43 am:
Well, thanks for your vote of confidence! At least you make it clear that you like meeting single males.

iwantaman4me0 47F

5/22/2007 1:33 pm

the woman of the couple was going wow what a dick but then the man of the couple was prob saying the samething..

if i see a big dick i will veiw the profile dont mean i want them just like there dick

love it


vengeur replies on 5/22/2007 5:17 pm:
Oh, I know how you like your dicks by now! LOL

Murax 61M
933 posts
5/22/2007 6:58 pm

I get the same thing. In general I don't contact. Especially if they are siver and gold members who can contact me when ever they feel like it. They may be looking just because they like the pics. However, if I see them checking it out more than a couple of times I'll invite them into my network to see the rest of my pictures.


vengeur replies on 5/23/2007 5:51 pm:
It's nice to know that I'm not the only one.

NSA_Fun 59F

5/26/2007 1:07 pm

Waiting in line for my turn at a taste of you I guess, lol.


vengeur replies on 5/27/2007 8:16 pm:
There is a line now?

NSA_Fun 59F

6/2/2007 4:52 pm

LOL, seems to be...


oralyours385 62M

8/5/2007 12:07 pm

Let's face it, anyone on this site is certainly not here for privacy!!!!!

Any paying member is within his or her own right to view anyone broadcasting live.

If someone wants even 'selective' privacy, this is definately NOT the place for them.

BiinLICinto Straight&Bi only


rm_SlenderBi4u 76M
1 post
2/24/2008 2:51 pm

I get viewed by many couples, get many 'winks' and am also 'hotlisted,' when I open their profile, low and behold, "No Single Males." So, my being somewhat inquisitive I message them anyway and ask if they liked my photos, most of the time there is no response, but occasionally I do get a brief response - Can't you Read, "No Single Males." - Go figure????


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