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Dominant vs Submissive
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Dominant vs Submissive Out of the goodness of my heart, I shall attempt to bestow some wisdom upon those of you interested in domination/submission. In our world, the vast majority are born to submit, few have what it takes to dominate. Of those few, most do it for lust of power. They are abusers and destroyers…to be given a wide berth. The exception is the dominant personality who creates, nurtures, teaches, and develops the new mind and body. Read carefully, my young and inexperienced subjects…for you’re upon the entrance to the no return. From a time before the beginning of time and past the end of time…for time and space are eternal and infinite…energy has created and destroyed. Mankind’s most brilliant minds have struggled to answer the sempre perpetuam question…do you need to control in order to dominate, or must you dominate to be able to control? What you’re about to read is based on conjecture, for<b> philosophy </font></b>itself is nothing but the works of the mind trying to understand the forces surrounding us and guiding our lives. In true life we face fact and fiction; the former begets knowledge, the latter ignorance. I know I’ll lose most of you along the way. For those few of you truly interested in facts about domination/submission, research and read. There’s a metaphysical significance attached to the number 11…so here are eleven great pieces of advice. Start with Biblical Solomon and try to understand his hold over the one thousand wives and concubines. Follow Lao Tzu’s teaching… “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.” Try to fathom Anaxagoras’ “the mind is infinite and self-ruled, and is mixed with nothing but is all alone by itself.” Move on to Kong Qiu and his "do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself.” Study Sun Tzu and accept that “supream art consists in subduing without fighting.” Accept Socreates’ “to know is to accept that you know nothing…that’s the true meaning of knowledge.” Learn from Plato that “human behavior flows from desire, emotion, and knowledge.” Understand the meaning of Aristotle’s “the energy of the mind is the essence of life.” Mark the words of Cicero… “For what is more hideous than avarice, more brutal than lust, more contemptible than cowardice, more base than stupidity and folly?” Comprehand Mosheh ben Maimon’s wisdom… “do not consider it proof just because it is written, for a liar who will deceive with his tongue will not hesitate to do the same with his pen.” Apply to your everyday’s life Descartes’ immortal words; “Cogito, ergo sum. I think, therefore I am.” I’ll stop the eleven epistemologic points, but would suggest to both self proclaimed dominants/submissives to read a few other noted phylosophers who have tackled the issue: Spinoza, Bacon, Kant, Rousseau, Sarte, Seneca, Nitzsche, and last but not least, the master of masses control, Mao Tse Tung. In any interaction between two beings there’s a leader and a follower…a dominant and a submissive. If you can’t lead you MUST follow. The mind is the most poweful tool we humans ever developed, yet we use so little of its capacity. It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain. The aristocracy of dominant color, race, and sex, the actions of humans without proper direction, motivation, and desire, is the root of all evils. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. A domineering personality, at times referred to as Napoleonic syndrome, in the hands of the mentally underdeveloped, emotionally unstable, is very dangerous. Physical abusiveness has nothing in common with domination. A submissive personality needs caring, educating, formatting, and above all…a gentle touch. If you want to know more…sure, contact me. I’ll try my best to recommend to you the proper readings or even the names of professionally trained personalities. One last thing. There is a pretty young lady on this site…lost, vulnerable, and afraid. She is a veteran who risked her life for our country. To her I raise my glass in a silent salute and dedicate the following. “Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.” |
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You raise quite a number of salient points on the responsibility of being a dom. Looking forward to reading more...
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