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He thinks she doesn't know...  

rm_unlistedone 73M
2504 posts
11/9/2006 12:47 am

Last Read:
8/5/2007 9:37 pm

He thinks she doesn't know...



I saw a guy reach into his billfold and dig way underneath his credit cards and pull out a hundred dollar bill to get something he wanted to buy today.

You know, the mad cash... the emergency cash, the stash.

He said "This is cash she doesn't know I have."

That is so BS.

Call it what you will guys. She knows it's there. She just calls your little hiding place
"a safety deposit box."

(And the whole time, he's thinking he's pulled one over on her!)

So what do you have that you think is safely hidden away?

Just wierd thinking, to help me through the day!
Have a good one... or two.


Theflinkychick 113F

11/9/2006 2:58 am

I was so blindly devoted to him that I DIDN'T know he was hiding mo from me, for the better part of two decades I pinched pennies until Lincoln begged for mercy while he spent mo on other women... sometimes love does blind a person, after the fact I found out the even our teenage daughter knew he was holding out on us... ah well...

Not all who wander are lost.


angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
11/9/2006 10:13 am

You are right! I do know his little secrets. In fact, it really bugs him that I just seem to know so much! lol But I have my little secrets.....and I like it that way!


angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
11/9/2006 10:15 am

PS....I like the new picture! Very classy! OF course, I miss the shot of your behind! 143


VATraveler1948 75M

11/9/2006 3:07 pm

I don't have any secrets... except maybe at Christmas time. I'm usually able to keep my wife in the dark on what's in the package(s). The darn woman seems to know my thoughts before I think them. Hmmm, maybe she is the one planting those disgusting ideas in my mind.


rm_unlistedone 73M
2718 posts
11/13/2006 1:02 am

flinky... most guys keep a little extra in case they need it for an emergency. I'm sorry he kept it for other uses... and made you scrape along. That just wasn't right. hug, my dear friend, me
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Angel... somehow, I can't imagine ever being able to keep something from you. Not sure I would ever want to, for that matter! And you know where my behind is, if you want to see it! lol! hug, me
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Va... Keeping secrets at Christmas is "justified." I imagine that you have to be very much on your guard to keep those secrets, also. I'm glad you do. That's part of the fun, isn't it. As for her planting ideas in your head; I would say listen to them! You are bound to come out way ahead if you do.
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Angel... in a relationship that you trust, there isn't tmi. It's good that you don't spill everything on him over the first dinner; but if it's an honest relationship, and the guy really is interested, don't worry about letting him see or know about the baggage. He probably has some of his own. And he might be in a position to help you carry some of yours. hugs hun, me


curiousinlorain7 66F

11/13/2006 3:19 am

Don't sell yourself short as a man... my ex used to tell me he was working overtime..and seeing his girlfriend ( now current mrs) and I had no idea...he had a seperate charge card..i had no idea of..and he had a seperate bank account..also something of which i had no idea of...


rm_unlistedone 73M
2718 posts
11/14/2006 5:42 pm

lorain...I guess I must be very niave. I think the only real thing I've ever kept from my wife is my blog here! I'm sorry you had to go through that. I wonder what he keeps hidden away now? special hug, me
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When I wrote this, I figured it was just something humorous. I think I touched on something that wasn't very funny to most of you though. I'm sorry that all of you had to go through finding out about secrets "after" the fact. Those are the one's that really seem to hurt the deepest. I know, I have found those "secrets" myself. Not fun... not fun at all. To be honest with you, it was a very long, long time before I actually trusted anyone because of it. But, I survived. Here's hoping you too, can put that part of your life... behind you... where it needs to be. hugs to all, me


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