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Solitary Flight...
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Solitary Flight... In the last year, I've had seven good friends pass away. I guess once you start reaching a certain age, this happens more often. Some knew their time had drawn near... others didn't have a clue. I miss each and every one of them. And I'm in the process of doing it all again... with three more. All my spare time over the last few months has been taken up with them... and so will my future time for awhile longer. I've learned a lot of medical terms that I would have gladly not known about. I've also learned the "absolute" importance of a "living will," medical power of attorney, and the legal term "dnr." (Do Not Resuscitate.) All are something each of us needs to have in place. It isn't easy watching as one passes slowly away. But at least we still have them here. And each smile they give us is treasured. Each touch of the hand is remembered. Every hug is a golden moment. They will take a "Solitary Flight" soon... as will all of us eventually. Perhaps for some, it's for the best. But we still don't want to let them go. But go, they will... and we must honor them for what they left behind. And our love for them won't end... we'll only just have their memories to keep them near us and inside us. For my friends here... thank you to each of you... for your thoughts... your prayers... your love...all the warm hugs... and your friendship and kindness. I will be back whenever I'm able. Solitary Flight... Night shadows no longer have meaning... nor do they threaten my peace. The daily hassle of being has come to an end. All that's left now is a solitary flight... one we all will take. For some it will be with dignity and love. Loved ones and friends will gather close and then all will slip quietly, from sight... and sound. A few will take flight abruptly... without warning; nor a chance to make amends. Others won't be as kind. Whatever way... the flight will take each of us away. I've seen so many such flights taken by friends and loved ones... and I've hated to see them leave. But, I've known they had to go... and nothing I could do would prevent it. Most all were ready anyway. And the time of solitary flight will one day come my way... maybe soon; but who knows? Perhaps butterflies will fly for me... and ease my pain... and I will say good-bye to all... as I would want. I'm not afraid anymore. Just sad that I'll leave some things undone... others... not tried. I wonder how high my flight will take me... and will it be level and smooth? Or will I not catch the wind and never leave the ground? Either way... the next generation will have to go on without me... except for vague words written, old photos that gather dust... and a few "Ah yes, I remember him." A solitary flight to greet old family and friends. A solitary flight... home. © copyright 2007 by unlistedone |
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*hugs gently*...thank you
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Thanks friends.... and peedee... I promise I will. hugs, me
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Polly... you're wisdom and your thoughts are very true. Perhaps grief is good. 143, my dear friend, me ~ ~ ~ Becky... very true... and I count you among my friends to share things with. sweet hug, me ~ ~ ~ RM... that may well be very true. I'm sure they don't want us to quit. 143, my dear, easy friend... me
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My special friend.....there are no words. I just stopped by to say that you have been in my heart and thoughts so often lately. Now I know why. You are a wonderful friend. 143......always 
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tender hugs, Unlisted... courage to stand true at their side... but be full of compassion. give them what joys they ask for. Some merely the loving grasp of your hand and possibly a gentle kiss and a refreshing cool cloth to their brow. "Grief is the price we pay for love" ...QEII ...m.
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