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Penetration is the best
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I am a one on one type of person. I don't share. I find it less attractive if the guy is a bed hopper with few or many. Even if there is a picture of him having sex with someone else on here. I ignore that person if he contacts me. I'm not interested in seeing that. Or if he is having sex with someone else without a condom. Way too many risks, no thank you. I am less attracted to a guy with many partners.
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It isnt a question of attraction to me. I just am not one to vie for attention. The more people involved, the less attention either of us get from the other. I guess Im selfish that way.
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Personally, I am fine with a woman to have a few others. If they have a lot more , then I am not as attracted to them. I myself, have my wife, one female that I see on a regular basis, and a couple that are seen once in a great while. She is perfectly fine with that.
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Like you, I would be looking for FWB relationship, in that it is a strong partnership and on going, including general together time and sex. I think even 3, in your case, is probably too many to manage and work around. Four or more sounds insane and too much hard work, not least because of sexual health matters probably already raised here elsewhere. There are a few other obvious concerns which have again been highlighted no doubt. Thankfully, given my frame of mind, even one is at least one too many
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I tend to lend towards the don't ask don't tell. If you and your FWB are hitting it off then why drag any questions of past hook-ups in to the light. My thought is there's probably not a lot of virgins ( the ultimate prize ) here on this site. If you( or I ) ask, then you ( or I ), should get the truth, other than that. Keep it as light and simple as possible.
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9/2/2020 11:30 am |
experience is a good thing!!!!
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9/2/2020 11:39 am |
I like to find just a couple of regular women to play with. I enjoy getting to know them as people. It also lets each of you get to know what they like sexually at the same time. After all it's Friends with Benifits.
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9/3/2020 7:43 am |
I’m with you all the way.
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I don't like the idea of her being dicked down by that many guys.
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Instead of attracted, I would say "prefer" less current and also using protection with their partners and not just be protected with me and raw with others.
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I personally would only want 1 FWB because I figure, if I am going to trust someone to get into bed with them. I want to make it mean and feel something. You can’t really do that by as what one person said “ making them feel cheap “ I totally agree with that statement. I believe it is far more intense having a FWB that you both can have an emotional and physical connection with as it just increases the experience.
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9/9/2020 10:48 am |
It can be a turn off but not a deal breaker
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If I was the male equivalent of a slut, I guess how many other partners she has would not matter. But, that is just not how I am wired. I need to get to know somebody first, then if all goes well, maybe there will be some sex. It would be difficult for me to have sex with somebody just to have sex. There needs to be something more, which would not be the case with a woman with multiple partners.
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