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Brand New Year Brand New Attitude!  

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/5/2020 12:14 pm

thanks for sharing

I like to change things up a bit

underlying principles that we hold dear, are still dear

I've changed my profile to reflect my true wants, and I think it lets people decide immediately if the risk is worth the reward

good luck with your new attitude

reminded me of this

Van Morrison - "Brand New Day"

When all the dark clouds roll away
And the sun begins to shine
I see my freedom from across the way
And it comes right in on time

Well it shines so bright and it gives so much light
And it comes from the sky above
Makes me feel so free
Makes me feel like me
And lights my life with love

And it seems like and it feels like
And it seems like, yes it feels like
A brand new day
A brand new day, yeah, yeah, yeah

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thikhead 67M
3346 posts
1/5/2020 12:16 pm

youre always attractive, in all ways



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mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
1/5/2020 12:18 pm

Doesn't matter the hair color my friend, you are beautiful and yes we are all trying to support each other, because that's what real queens do only one person is trying to divide us and all of all blogland has realized who that is.

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LickYourYoni 75M
569 posts
1/5/2020 12:31 pm

You look awesome! Keep your standards high as you have listed them. It is a great platform. You can always tweak them a bit though out the year, if necessary. Have grand luck!


funiithesun58 66M
1277 posts
1/5/2020 12:35 pm

You look hot as always ! Have beeen here four years ! And your so hot !


luv2pleaseuall2 45M  
27 posts
1/5/2020 12:42 pm

Your rules aren't strict they are smart. That guy was just an asshole. I think more of you that you don't just jump in and have sex with just anyone. Keep being that sexy strong woman that you are.


trewton 44M/41F

1/5/2020 12:56 pm

Your body your rules. Don’t know the old look but the current one is very hot


Love_My_Toys 59M
848 posts
1/5/2020 1:02 pm

Sorry to hear you met another asshole. Nothing wrong with your rules at all. I never expect sex on a first meet. My rules don't differ all that much from yours.

One caveat though, if the the sparks are flying, (in both directions) then go for it!


HuttValleyboy67 56M
547 posts
1/5/2020 1:17 pm

great smile, best wishes for the year ahead


ime4real 59M
492 posts
1/5/2020 1:27 pm

Your rules are perfectly reasonable. The guy sounds like a douchebag.


stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
1/5/2020 1:36 pm

Hi Mama

Your rules are paramount for your safety.. Way to many idiots on this site ..This is a new year. I do hope you find your special person.. He will want to take his time to get to know your soul.. If he pushes or rushed you into anything your not ready for then he is not worthy of you

Chris

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
1/5/2020 1:44 pm

Your rules are extremely reasonable and appropriate. Even if they weren’t, it doesn’t matter, they’re YOUR rules and any true man would honor them.
Being presumptive based on what any woman posts here is just wrong.
No one should ever be treated with such utter callousness and disrespect.

I suspect the joy of getting to know the real you is totally worth the wait regardless of whether it ever leads to sharing something truly intimate. One of the wonderful parts of the journey of getting to know someone here is the time spent building that chemistry, comfort level and earning their trust. Any man worthy of your company would embrace your rules and cherish the opportunity to start that journey.

Life's a journey not a destination

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
1/5/2020 2:06 pm

The rules about a no-expectations, safe, public place first meeting? - I agree completely! (Though I CAN recall three first meets that occurred when I was already in the hotel room waiting. But these we all fellow bloggers - we KNEW each other - just never had met in person.)

Now the rule about no more coffee dates? Well sorry that one seems a bit extreme.

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stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
1/5/2020 2:22 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Good you found out what an ass he is. I wonder if it is because we are on this site, some think they are entitled to whatever and manners and respect are not warranted. Those men make it hard for the good ones here.
For me it would not matter what the site is.. A woman's safety is number one No one male or female should be subjected to that type of behavior , For sure an idiot like that does make it difficult for some who are sincere and real

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


fang070 53M
1309 posts
1/5/2020 3:00 pm

First of all, regarding your look: wow! you look gorgeous.

For your rules "thing", it should not be required if, as I would expect, there SAS mutual respect, but unfortunately as shows your last date there are still many men which does not even known this word exists.
I consider your rules pretty natural and appropiate, but it seems you have to consider a more restrictive rule ser ☹️

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/5/2020 3:02 pm

I am so sorry my friend this should have NOT happened to you. Your rules are PERFECT and men need to understand them and NOT EXPECT anything more. You have set boundaries for yourself, and I agree with them and anyone else who doesn't well they don't deserve a meeting or date with you.

I hope your enjoying a very Peaceful Sunday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scott6250 61M

1/5/2020 3:17 pm

You're rules are quite good my friend. Great pic you sexy little sweetheart of a lady.

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Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
1/5/2020 3:48 pm

Not a thing wrong with your rules and you are definitely worth it.


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
1/5/2020 3:57 pm

 you did the right, drop him...  you are not a cheap date your
worth more than what he offer you . this is a new year something
good will come your way.


ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
1/5/2020 4:14 pm

Jeanie, your rules are absolutely perfect. Those who disrespect them are not worth your attention anyway.
My rules are similar. But not everyone thinks like that ... When I once suggested to a woman to meet over a coffee, she became quite abusive. No loss!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
1/5/2020 4:39 pm

Your rules seem perfectly reasonable to me. He was just trying to see if he could push past your boundaries. Good riddance to him!


teddy425 65M
294 posts
1/5/2020 4:41 pm

Your rules are entirely reasonable, that guy was a jerk, and an idiot, and has now blown his chances forever with you. His loss...


hungndumb42 48M

1/5/2020 4:42 pm

Your rule is very reasonable. If they don't understand your rules then they are not right for you. You should have busted him in the balls!!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/5/2020 4:54 pm

I have the same rules. And unfortunately, I had similar endings to a meet so I have become more circumspect before I agree
PS I LOVE the hair

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Lonely16842 59M
883 posts
1/5/2020 4:56 pm

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your rules. I'd would never expect anything like that from a woman on a first meet. IMHO I'd say the guy was probably just an entitled a-hole and you deserve so much more than that.


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