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White Picket Fence....Really Ladies?  

camkitten 54F
7 posts
11/14/2014 6:03 am
White Picket Fence....Really Ladies?

I'm constantly amazed that so many women on here complain about men who take them out and then whip their dick out at the end of the night, or don't offer to pay, or assume they will get sex at the first meet.

Guess what girls? When your profile is plastered with tit, ass and pussy pics, or provocative pics of other body parts (legs in heels, a hint of cleavage, etc) the impression you are giving is one of giving it up easy. You are enticing the men sexually via images. And you all know this, don't act like you don't. Men are very visual, sex driven creatures. You can hardly expect them to get all riled up over pics of your wet snatch then forget about that image when they meet you in person. I'm not saying they shouldn't be polite and still have manners, they should. But you create a certain expectation by how you present yourself on your profile.

While there is nothing wrong with seeking a partner for long term, and I commend those of you that are honest about it in your profiles, I have to say that Affairlook is probably not the best place to look for such a thing. Be<b> realistic. </font></b>"The World's Largest Sex Dating Site & Swinger Personals Community"...clearly stated. It's true when people say you should probably try match dot com or eharmony.

If you are one of the lucky few to have found your mate here, I congratulate you. But you are NOT the norm, and most women here would do well to note and remember that. Take this site for what it is, a hookup site, plain and simple. Expect behavior that reflects that mentality, because that is by and large what you will mostly find. Just be<b> realistic. </font></b>Men are only human and driven by basic carnal needs and urges. Cut them some slack here n there.


Here's to staying hard or wet, and always sexy {=}


moses4862 66M  
333 posts
11/14/2014 6:13 am

Very well said !!!!!! Thanks for telling the truth !!!!


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
11/14/2014 6:25 am

An appropriate pic of the Beav.


tedbear472 76M
807 posts
11/14/2014 7:01 am

Very well said. I want to see a picture of what I am going to be looking across the table at. Yes I paint a mental image of your photo and damn sure don't want to look across my steak and baked potato and see a mental image of a gaping pussy. Let's reserve that for the bedroom. I would much rather see a glowing face with a beautiful smile. Just saying. Kisses Ted


slowpoke9512 64M
1 post
11/27/2014 10:19 pm

Great reality in witch most don't want to hear. Simply because it goes against the fantasies that are in their own head.you scored 100 percent with your opinion. That's what most wantbut when it ccomes they really don't want it.. it's the fantasies part that there here for. Truth hurts. By putting up these profiles with all a guy needs to do to be with you. You're just creating a fake guy. He has to act like you want him to to get the goods . Then become himself later. That's when she feels violated because he's full of shit. But he only gave you your dream guy for as long as he could. Great post.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
3/27/2015 9:07 pm

You have a very realistic understanding of how the male mind works, and you stated it clearly and succinctly. Rather than bitch about how things work (and there's plenty to bitch about), you've elected to to observe and report. This is a really good post.
I think for many of us here, this is more than plainly and simply a hookup site. For me and I know for many of my friends here, it's also a social networking site- and a pretty good one. Nonetheless, your point is well made- for many, maybe most- of the members it is used as a hookup site. There's a neon sign hanging out front that screams "LIVE NUDE GIRLS!"
I really hope to read more posts here.

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