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Why so bitter?
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Why so bitter? So out of the blue I receive this hate mail from a 57 year old stranger. Bear in mind I've had no contact with this "man". His angry, bitter and quite bizarre reaction to my profile is odd to say the least. What do they hope to gain from it? Name and shame time  zf41snipe# You are a very short-sighted woman, I'm probably a better lover than the majority of the thick dicks you've been sucking on, so what if I'm over 40 big fucking deal! Hey if we can have some fun, well whoopee. Some day when you're over 40 looking for that sympathy fuck, you might just remember what a short sighted bitch you were 24/7/2014 1:03 pm I've reported him to Affairlook who I hope will delete his account for violating their TOS. No matter what our preferences, no one should have to put up with this kind of abuse. Holly. "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..." |
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What a thoroughly unpleasant man  I guess it's easy to abuse people from the safety of your keyboard. Coward.
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Are you for real? The woman did nothing wrong. You sir are out of line. I guess he didn't stand behind what he was saying. Interesting  "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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"Why so bitter?" Its a fair question and looking at your three blog entries one might ask it of you. Did you not review the site before joining? A previous post relates "questions to be abusive" Before that simple inquiries are rude. Profile entries do not tell all generally leaving more questions than what might have been revealed in writing. Its the response(s) that truely reveal who you are and whether someone's initial interest is worth following up. 1) Even if someone read a profile, they may ask questions to see what the response is and how its formulated - checking how and if the person can communicate or think beyond certain limits. 2) Questions are how people learn - in this case it is about other people. The inability, unwillingness, refusal and reaction in a response or non-response tells the intuitive thinker a lot more than a few lines in a profile. This is particularly telling to those that evaluate the idiosyncrasies present on a site like this. 3) The anonymous nature of a public site where most people strive to protect their real identities means we never really know who it is we are communicating with and most of all "who is watching" until there is an opportunity to meet in person. The nature of these three post have a commonality that may not be of interest to many readers. They do reveal something deep about the women behind the pen. Once you get beyond boys that see beauty as an entirely external element, you'll find men look beyond how a woman looks to see how attractive she may really be (or not). This post in itself says a couple of things with one telling truth, if you're not satisfied with the person contacting you, they risk being tarred and feathered on public display. The question you should be aking is: "is this the message you want to send out to the world". Are you for real? The woman did nothing wrong. You sir are out of line.
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People need to respect other people's choices, simple as that really. This guy clearly has problems and too much time on his hands. I'm over 40, you're not interested in guys over 40. Does that impact my life in any way? No. Nor should it. It's no one's business what kinda guy you like and no one has the right to comment on that. Some guys prefer brunettes to blondes, do blondes send hate mail to those guys? I'm guessing not. As another poster said the guy who sent that to you is miserable. But yeah you're right, Affairlook should stand by their TOS and get rid of members who think it's okay to abuse and/or bully people online.
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I'm equally disappointed that you won't fuck me just because I'm too old And you really are missing out because I'm a magnificent lover But I see no reason to be rude to you about it, after all it's your loss!  In any case, I'm too lazy to send hate mail, why bother? And to people you haven't even met? From a pragmatic/cynical view (depending on your opinion on karma) it doesn't do you any good and might backfire. I don't believe in karma but I do believe that being nice to other people can make you feel better about yourself too; but bitterness just eats away at your soul. Don't worry about the sympathy fuck when you're forty... some of us old men can be quite generous 
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That's sad that people have such miserable lives they have to send messages like that ...
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Just an idiot, but you're right, shouldn't have to deal with that
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