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"Dont go back for seconds"!
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"Dont go back for seconds"! I know when you get real hungry, we got to a buffet. All you can eat! This is the place you go when you know you going back for seconds. But, what I'm talking about is going back for seconds in a bad relationship. I know people who did that, and it cost them a lot. I have a friend who went back for seconds it cost him tons of money. He's on his 6th wife, it cost him money, apartment complexes and much more. You would think after wife number 2, there shouldn't have been wife 3 to 6. No man wants to be alone! He asked me, "don't you hate being alone? I told him, being alone sometimes don't mean a person is lonely. I rather be by myself then the wrong person. I know they say, people can change, but from my experiences, they don't! I worked with a guy who married a woman over 20 years younger. They had a few , and when the house was paid off, she divorced him and took the house and everything in it. She was struggling to make ends meet, so she contacted him and say she wanted him back. He was lonely and wanted to be loved, so he when back to her. So she got her name on all of his accounts, and he put her on his 401k, gave her power to withdraw money. He had well over $100,000 in his account. Without him knowing it, she withdrew everything! She didn't even leave a dollar in the account, she took it all and close his account. He was pissed when he found out, he got hit hard with taxes, and she divorced him again. He eventually retired, with almost nothing. Many of us fall victim in "doing the same thing, but want different results". It's not going to happen! There a woman who left her husband because he cheated, she was gone a couple of weeks. He told her what she wanted to hear and she went back. Within 6 months he did what he always did, but this time it's not easy to leave, she got loans and debts to help him remodel their home, and she said, she can't afford to live on her own with so much debt. So sad, her sister and family told her not to go back for seconds. I dated a younger woman, who wanted a even more younger man. She meet him on the internet, and sent for him. Not know he had a bad track record. She moved him in, he didn't work, and eventually he got her evicted, her job was only 3 minutes away, and she didn't drive. So she move to a place miles away. She work different shifts, and some night she had to walk home late, because the bus stop running. Months later, he called her, because the woman he lived with kicked him out. her friends told her not to take him back. But, she decided to go back for seconds, and she eventually got kicked out from her second apartment and now living in a motel. Over paying for a room. No one deserve what these people when through. Never let anyone use you. Never love someone more than you love yourself. By chance, you get a call from and ex that did you wrong in the past, and they ask if you both can give it another try. You tell them, I "Don't go back for seconds"! Fun fact: Airlines all over the world are flying 10% slower than they did in 1960. (to save on fuel costs) Fun facts: The Slavonic name for God is Bog. Fun facts: In the Civil War 2% of the population died. The equivalent today would be 6,278,280 deaths.         |
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2/22/2015 9:01 am |
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HiYa Scoupe. NO.  
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Ty Scoupe.. I really feel sorry for these kinds of people who take back the person and then they run off with the money and everything. Kindness of his heart he decided to take her back then she screwed him over. Was this her plan in the beginning I am sure it was.. There are so many evil people out there. It happened to a friend at work and he was taken for everything.. Sadly to say he still had his friends and his friends help him rebuild his life again.. She new what she was doing too.. Just to get back at him.. An excellent my friend.. I hope this doesn't happen to you with your kind heart! hugsssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Very wise words there Scoupe. I have been married twice and thankfully to different men. The first marriage ended in divorce my second husband died. In the divorce all I asked was for custody of our daughter. I didn't want anything else from him so didn't take a penny. We both started again, both remarried and were both content never to think of second helpings!!!  ~~Anais Nin~~
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2/20/2015 9:29 pm |
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