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so my question how many people out the think bi is just a stage of comming out  

smielles2u 54F  
13 posts
1/24/2014 1:06 pm
so my question how many people out the think bi is just a stage of comming out

I don't think that it is all that difficult to define bisexuality. It is simply the attraction to both sexes. KISS principle approach might help.

Beyond that in definition, it is being more specific about the varieties of bisexuality and refining the basis of "attraction".

Each bisexual knows that they are attracted to both (usually in a sexual manner). The degree of attraction may vary. Whether they act on that attraction and how is merely an application of their bisexuality.

Transitioning is a term that I've read gays refer to themselves when at one point that they thought that they were bisexual. Determining whether you are transitioning or a bisexual may get caught up in some political implication. It shouldn't matter except to the person. (ya bis can get a bad from the transitioning gays though) Again, it is all just detail and refining of the basic 'attraction' concept.

Don't worry: be happy! kind of<b> philosophy </font></b>might help (not that people may not struggle with acceptance but that is another topic)

absolutelyiwould 79M/78F
68 posts
1/24/2014 1:20 pm

 I think one is typically primarily one and secondarily the other with the ratio possibly changing with time and experience. It is all ok as long as one is happy.


badweatherrr 63M
19 posts
1/25/2014 9:52 pm

 It's a complex thing to go through.

I just wrote a blog post about it: Women Will Be Bored

It's interesting because even though I'm on a mission to experience this other part of me that has been denied for so long... it's kind of like a dam breaking.

Almost overwhelming even.

But I'm really enjoying it.

I'm sure I'll have sex with Women eventually again. It may be a while though.


funbitimes 46M
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1329 posts
1/27/2014 3:13 am

 Not a stage for me. I have always been bi.


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