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And That's Marriage Number Four - Down in Flames!  

New2Midlo 54M
663 posts
4/20/2020 5:27 pm

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4/21/2020 4:00 pm

And That's Marriage Number Four - Down in Flames!


For those who've muddled through my previous entries, you're aware of how my ex-wife is the gift that gave and has kept on giving. From the manipulation, to the throwing of the ham, to the hell she put me through in our divorce, marrying hubby number four, and the piece de resistance, becoming a wedding officiant. I thought that she was done, hoped she was done because I genuinely hold no ill will toward her and want her to be happy, because she's got more than her fair share of demons to contend with. But I was optimistic because she and Number Four have been together for ten years, a new record for her. I thought of her the other day and wondered if she'd finally gotten it together.

Then today, my father called to inform me that Number Four's mother reached out to him. Apparently, the marriage is on its last leg and circling the drain, and NF wanted to know what divorce attorney I'd used. I can only speculate that my ex complained about how much of a bastard the guy was, hence his desire to go with the same formula. My attorney has no love lost for my ex, partially because she was trash talking him to his (unbeknownst to her) at a cocktail party. Oops... Maybe he'll offer a discount; she is a repeat defendant after all.

I feel for the guy, because everyone who knows him has nothing but praise for how kind and goodhearted he is. But as I've noted before, you have to be pretty naive and more than a little dense to sign up to be Number Four in the first place. Poor guy is about to enter a living hell, when he asks for a divorce and no one deserves that. I'm hoping to connect with him before he pulls the trigger, so he can at least be a little prepared for the firestorm that's about to engulf him.

All part of life's rich pageant, my friends. Thankfully, I'm not on the stage as one of the players, this time. Someone please pass the popcorn?

New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
4/20/2020 5:28 pm

Hell hath no fury like a borderline who's been abandoned


sportsfan362437 54F
1026 posts
4/20/2020 8:53 pm

I have just 'happened' onto your blog, by way of your commenting on mine... (Thank you very much, by the way.).
I must say, you are truly a breath of fresh air! I enjoy the way you write..... the time you take to insert every detail. I am, not only impressed, but plan to become a 'watcher'.
I look forward to learning more about you, and the way in which you describe the specific situations.
Stay safe, and I wish you positivity and wellness.

~Sports


*Smiles, kisses n hugz*
~Sports


New2Midlo replies on 4/21/2020 4:00 pm:
Thanks so much for your kind words!

If reading my drivel brings you pleasure, knowing that genuinely brightens my day.

I almost always read your blog, so it's time I clicked the follow button, myself.
Cheers!

CumfyCozy2 54F

4/21/2020 4:00 am

Four? Wasn’t once enough? Where can I read about the ham toss episode?


New2Midlo replies on 4/21/2020 8:11 am:
She has a lot of underlying issues, associated with BPD.

If the link below doesn't show up, the entry is halfway down the last page of my entries, titled She Threw a What?'

Part II She Threw a What

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