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Blogs > New2Midlo > Fun with a normal white guy...

Dating Absurdity  

New2Midlo 54M
666 posts
11/9/2018 3:14 pm

Last Read:
11/11/2018 6:47 am
Dating Absurdity
Aside from the rude, dysfunctional, and just plain bonkers people you meeting online dating, there are the flat out dumb, with nothing to say.

If I had a dollar for every opening note I've received consisting solely of 'Hi, how are you?', I don't know how many dollars I'd have but it would be a bunch. In order to head them off, I've included the following in my OK profile:
If you send me a lame 'Hi, how are you?' message, here's your response:
' great! Done with parole and all the paternity tests came back negative. Hoes be tryin' to bleed me dry!'

Of course, I still receive those notes, but I received one today that made my head hurt.

This was on a vanilla dating site, where you are encouraged to display your first name.
They've eliminated usernames and key off your email. So, my first name was clearly displayed on my profile as was her's, which you can see.

I'll just leave this here...
New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
11/9/2018 3:15 pm

 Umm...nevermind...


bitchkitty2017 71F

11/9/2018 3:27 pm

 Yep I get them as well from the guys I don't ever initiate conversation because I don't find anyone on here that " grabs my attention " I like dressed and partially clothed guys and little things left to the imagination not cock pics up close or jerk off vids or pics.. of course I am a woman first I am gonna look..lol but rarely ever answer flirts or " hi hows things" blurbs..full sentences yep I will answer if its someone who fits my criteria, even chat with ones who don't as long as its respectful


luvgluv19 75M

11/9/2018 5:55 pm

 Robotic calls are definitely the pits


Walking62 61M
Ask me for a photo

11/9/2018 6:05 pm

 Ok, I have to play the other side. IM has so many problems, you never know if you are going to to connect. I have sent many first messages that just say delivered. Usually open up with a Hi and if get a response then begin a more thoughtful chat. If it is a message with gold member then a little more thought.


New2Midlo replies on 11/9/2018 6:17 pm:
This was on a different site, where the messaging system actually functions.

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
11/10/2018 4:38 am

 I'm being thick I guess.. is your name Midlo?


New2Midlo replies on 11/10/2018 9:11 am:
No, this was on a completely different, and vanilla, dating site in which you are encouraged to use your first names, versus usernames.

Editing my post..

lyavu 50F
1538 posts
11/10/2018 5:54 pm

 I would rather someone say hi how are you ? Than send me a dick pic as a salutation.


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