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If you can't say something nice...
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If you can't say something nice... We've taken a few pics & made a few vids which we've posted on here & we have to say thank you to all of those who have commented & given us encouragement to put out more material. Even the typical "yeah, I wanna fuck you!" or the "I wish you could fuck/suck me next!" comments are appreciated. After all, this is an adult sex site & such commentary is the norm. We've seen a ton of vids & pics on here, the majority of them awesome, inspiring & sexy n& we ALWAYS have positive words to say about those postings. The vids or pics that aren't good, we just move on to the next & forget them. No commentary, no remarks, just let the parties responsible figure it out. This may seem like we're being snooty, but it is a case of the opposite, we're actually being polite because even though a vid or pic wasn't favorable to us, if we comment in a rude or negative manner it may deter the member(s) behind the pic or vid to not put anything out there anymore. It may hinder them from pushing their personal limit as well as remove the comfort of sharing intimate moments that we could enjoy. We've generally received positive feedback on our vids & pics, some criticism here & there, but we usually address it w/ humor. The funniest was a member who criticized a vid we made, but they had no vids to speak of. We just laughed it off & attributed their comment to either envy or just bitter for not getting what they saw us enjoying. But there are those folks who take some of the comments left on their efforts to heart & that is a shame. Sure, they're only words on an adult sex site, but really, do we have to be mean, even on here? There's no call for it. We look @ it this way: If a couple puts a vid on here, that is a sign of trust so in return it pays to give them respect, especially w/ our words. Be encouraging, be supportive, just be cool. We recently had a dear friend tell us she was driven to tears from some rude comments left on 1 of her vids by an anonymous poster, probably a troll, fake or phony. All we could do was calm her down & tell her that it was only words, but we could tell she was hurt & that's not cool (by the way, all her vids are nothing less than awesome!). We've left behind a bunch of comments on vids because we not only enjoyed them, we want to encourage that member to do more. The focus of our comments has everything to do w/ the positive aspects of the vids. It is the least we can do to support our fellow Affairlook members. We can say w/ experience behind us that those great comments have encouraged us to make more vids & take more pics. They also make us focus on the quality of our submitted material. We believe in the "quality, not quantity"<b> philosophy </font></b>& many of you have expressed favorable views on our material, which we totally appreciate. In all, the point of this blog post is to ask all our fellow Affairlook members to be kind w/ the words on people's efforts. It takes a hell of a lot to post vids & pics here & all encouragement keeps the contributions coming. Again, thank all of you for the kindness, encouragement, support & awesomeness, we have appreciated every syllable of it. |
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1/18/2014 8:15 pm |
Ya'll look great! Just thought I'd tell ya. =)
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There will always be assholes on this site and all others. I am at a bdsm site and have received a few nasty mails from so called men. They are just pissed off I am not looking to meet. They are cowards who after sending the mail will block me from answering. Offline there is plenty of boys like them and the people who write negative comments about you. I call them boys because men do not need to do that. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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Well said.
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Thanks all, just our attempt to add some "civility" to a sometimes uncivil world. LamtheKel, thank you, kind words such as those encourage people to make more vids or take more pics. Kindly appreciated. Brownie, it seems to be a common thing w/ some guys, they think by acting in such a manner it'll get them laid. Think again. The internet seems to breed some of the worst keyboard jockeys, or as we call them in BMX racing "keyboard crankers" & all it amounts to is bullying. We've been lucky thus far, but we've heard of too many examples from fellow members & friends where even the race card was thrown out there ("you just don't to meet me because I'm -insert race or ethnicity here-). Cowardly? Absolutely, especially when you hide behind a keyboard. Gizmoe, aren't those the most simple words, yet the most difficult to achieve by some folks? Some people just don't get it & more than likely, they never will. Well, the 1 thing any of you can expect from us is encouragement because we'd love to see more material from our fellow members. Thank you all for sharing comments.
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