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ANAL SEX......PROS & CONS...
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ANAL SEX......PROS & CONS... ANAL SEX......PROS & CONS... I was reading and online article by Rachel Khona, in which she states Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a "naughty girl." And that anal sex is one of those things that falls into that fantasy. She goes on to say that, "Anal sex isn’t just for the sexually daring anymore. It’s becoming more and more common in bedrooms around the world, but don’t let that fool you. Backdoor play is a different beast altogether". She addresses the Pros & Cons of anal sex in away that I thought I would share with you all. It appears that anal sex is something that woman either love it or hate it. There is no real in between when it comes down to it. Most women have tried it at some point, resulting in one of two feelings: pain or pleasure. Often times those that are trying it for the first time don't really prepare themselves for the experience. Trust me, It is something that you might want to prepare for to ensure pleasure all the way around (But, I think that is going to be another post). Preparation appears to be the key to an enjoyable moment. But, Ms. Khona listed the Pros & Cons of anal sex. Here are a few of her tops pros & cons: THE PROS It can feel good Women enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It's a totally different sensation than regular sex. It's not her vagina, yet it's inside her. In other words, it’s a completely alien feeling that she isn’t used to, which makes it intriguing. Meanwhile, the rectum will just suck up your penis like a vacuum. Play with her clitoris too and you’ll really send her into the stratosphere. In fact, it’s even possible for women to have orgasms from anal sex. Because anal sex is naughty Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.” There’s a reason people love school girl uniforms and handcuffs: It’s forbidden and, therefore, all the more delicious and tempting. Anal sex is something you can do in secret and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your girl — which is part of the fun. Plus, there’s the bonding experience of doing something together for the first time, even if it’s just a first for one of you. THE CONS It’s painful Anal sex can hurt like a mofo. The rectum is not built to have things go in; only out. The vagina stretches to let in a penis and give birth, but a rectum does not. Thus you can cause searing pain if you don't prepare her properly. That means a) asking her first (duh) b) using lube and c) going very slowly and not pounding into her like a jackrabbit. It's a mess Women put so much emphasis on making themselves look pretty and sweet-smelling for their men, so the merest glimmer of a possibility that you might see her explode all over herself is obviously devastating to her. No longer will you see her as a beautiful, desirable woman; you'll forever be picturing her covered in feces. It's not exactly the look she's going for. For this reason she might decide to avoid anal sex altogether. But if she takes an anal douche ahead of time (or even just a thorough wash-up in the shower) and makes sure her bowels have been emptied an hour before, she’s almost certain to avoid any messy accidents. So, with that said...here are a few THINGS TO REMEMBER Lube is your friend...... Unlike the vagina, the rectum does not produce its own lubricant. Penetration without ample lube equals dry friction. Not so pleasurable. Use a silicone-based product and not petroleum jelly, which will just clog up the walls of your rectum. Don’t forget about foreplay...... It’s may important to turn her on before you even think about going near her back door. When she’s feeling hot and bothered, her body will be much more receptive to anal. In other words, you need to make her ache for it, not just kind of want it. This way when you start touching her closer to her anus, she’ll be more likely to respond with a heated moan than a yelp of pain. Tease her without even putting anything in her. Kiss and rub her body all over. Make her feel relaxed and adored. The art of tease and anticipation is one of the best tools you have in your sexual toolbox. Keep it clean........ Both of you are equally susceptible to disease with anal sex as you are with vaginal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable, so safe sex is imperative. Not only will condoms protect you against any stray fecal matter, but it will prevent her from having an ass full of semen. Semen can mix with the contents of her rectum and can make her sick. Use a condom and avoid the hassle. Practice makes perfect, and anal sex is no different. Do it the right way, and she’ll be more open to doing it again. Screw it up, and you can kiss anal sex goodbye. At least until she forgets how bad it was last time, or you can convince her you’ve learned all these new skills.  |
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Good post! One way of making sure the back passage is as clean as it can be is for the recipient in anal sex to use a mild glycerine suppository 12 hours beforehand, which clears the bowel. Fingerplay and lube first so all is relaxed. Go in gently and start with a slow grinding movement. If anal is only part of your sex play then change condoms if going back to vaginal.
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Anal rocks. Dp is better!!!
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