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porterpiper1 57F
211 posts
1/15/2016 12:37 pm
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We are all adults I hope, Why do some of us make a big deal about small things, Life is about enjoying the time you have on this earth, We grip about so many silly things, We want to make it someone else fault. I was reading a blog on here about common sense, I am not trying to offend this person but it got to me, They are upset because people don't respond to every message they get. Why? It is not a rule on here to respond to everyone who send a message, it is a choice, just like it is a choice to send a message to anyone on here, I know some will ask why I am talking about this, well this isn't the first time someone have made this statement, I know a lot of you have got a phone call you didn't answer or a text and you didn't text back, same thing it is a choice to reply or respond or not. Don't make it out to be that you must reply to every message sent to you. Some of the people who send you messages never read your profile, and send messages to you about things you state in your profile you don't like or do, so why waste your time responding to that person? It is all about finding someone to have fun with and enjoy yourself.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
1/15/2016 1:03 pm

 Some people don't realize, that on this site, no reply, is a reply.

Plain and simple.

Nobody has to respond to e-mails.


porterpiper1 replies on 1/16/2016 3:34 am:
Some will never get it because they feel like you have to reply to every inbox message, and a lot don't have a social life outside this site. If they did getting a reply from one person would not be that damn important

somebodywho1 67M

1/15/2016 12:57 pm

 A response is not required but, as earlier stated, it does save effort and time from trying to connect not knowing you are not interested Having said that if the person sending you the message gets a" No Thank You ' he should show some class and just accepting that that is how it is and move on. Nobody should be berated for making a choice and being polite in saying no.


porterpiper1 replies on 1/16/2016 3:31 am:
That is just it, the person waiting on a reply is the only one wasting their time, waiting on a reply from one person. When there are 1000's of people on here. A lot of people don't check their inbox daily. sometimes it depends on what I have going on, I may not check mine for a month or so. People who want a reply need to get a life. A lot of people on here have a life outside this site.

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
1/15/2016 12:49 pm

 Even a "no thank you" doesnt work. Saying "no" is not allowed because that just opens up more questions like "why not"? or nasty comments, name calling and my personal favorite, "well, its your loss." Not worth sending a response at all.


porterpiper1 replies on 1/16/2016 3:14 am:
You are so right, that is why a lot of people don't reply, I have had that happen to me for saying no thanks, So why bother. People who want a reply don't understand maybe this is why some people don't reply because of pass encounters from others who can't take no for an answer.

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
1/15/2016 12:46 pm

 I agree 100%. Why do people feel entitled to anything here? No response is a response in my book. I have an auto reply that gets sent to someone that emails me. Now, i understand that they wont see that auto reply message until after they email me. Fine...no problem but to keep emailing me after that??? WTH. If people just followed directions and actually took the time to read and comprehend, no one would have to sweat the small stuff and get their shorts up in a bunch over trivial things. Thanks for sharing!!!


porterpiper1 replies on 1/16/2016 3:23 am:
I wish they would grow the F u c k up. So what you don't get a reply, now you are going to spend all your time waiting on this person to reply? When there are 1000's of people on here? This one person is so important to you, you have to get a reply? REALLY REALLY I mean come on, But we know some will never get it and still say it is good manners to reply or they would like one.

I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
1/15/2016 12:45 pm

 A response is not required that is for sure. The way I see it is that I would like a response back even if it is just to say "no thank you" that way I don't waste my time trying to connect anymore. But by no means would I get mad or rant about not getting a response back. Like you said it isn't required.
reach me in my blog titled private mail


porterpiper1 replies on 1/16/2016 3:11 am:
some people would like a response from the person they email but if they don't, to me that means they are not interested. If they were they would have replied?

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