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Man Please listen  

porterpiper1 57F
211 posts
11/30/2013 5:25 am
Man Please listen


Every woman and man is different, So stop treating every woman the same when you send a message, Yes this is a sex site or adult site, but do you have t behave like a teenage boy, I have heard better pick up line form<b> teenagers </font></b>than the adult men on here, Some women may like the one liners. other don't. A simple HI or hello, will get you a lot further then want to fuck, whats up, I am horny, my dick look good do you want it, I like the way your pussy look, nice tits. Then you get angry because you get no response or no thank you, There is a time and place for everything, Read profile files before you try to make contact with that person, Many men don't read profiles they only look at pics and then send message, I am one of those women who read profiles before I respond to a message. I know some of you will be offended about this post but you know THE TRUTH DO HURTS. A simple hi or hello always get someone attention quicker

XratedDirtyDre 47M

9/21/2014 10:47 pm

..Well I agree with sum of what your saying but it's a 2way street!What kills me about the women profiles on here is that they cum on strong about how they don't wont u sending emails to them and your profile page has your dick showing on your welcome page but when u visit their page you see pussy pics all over the page like she posing for hustler.second Ladies Please stop talkin to us guys on yo profile about what n how u like a man as if you are ordering off a fuckin menu I mean really it's not that dam serious. it's just funny to me!!


BlackRamRod02 58M
47 posts
12/17/2013 8:02 pm

There is something about being online that brings out the best and more often the worst in people. I believe that when online you should treat people as you would like to be treated. But, most of all you should treat women as you would like your mother, sister, or aunt to be treated. I get that Affairlook is a sex site. However, the women on the site are women and should be treated like such. Like "khuXBFXM8u" posted, Many men have had far less conversations about sex with a woman and more time watching porn! I would have to agree with that!

Thus the reason why men should take the time to write the proper e-mail expressing their wants and desires. Letting the lady know what the bring to the table and allowing them information to decide if they are interested or not. You can't be everything to everyone. But, we all are here for pretty much the same reason.....So, put your best foot forward when it comes to contacting a Lady on Affairlook. Doesn't matter how much of a freak she maybe....she still wants to feel and be treated like lady! And there is nothing wrong with that.... after all she is a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets. And you will never know if you don't gain the interest of the lady!


Honeydewy 46F  
3230 posts
12/2/2013 7:55 am

:Lul! I'm one of those who ignores a simple hi or hello!

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
12/2/2013 6:44 am

The topic of how men on this site approach women constantly comes up. I see it profile after profile and blog after blog; here are just two of the blog post on this subject mater I have responded to. lil_whimsical's post [post 3259373] and BrownEyedBBW's post Between Scylla and Charybdis.

For me it's a double edge sword, the fools make it hard to meet women, because they fill up mailboxes, and generally make my gender look like ignorant teenage boys. But on the other a hand, they make it easier for me stand out amount the fierce completion for the eyes and ears of the available women on this site. With the competition being not only single males, but couples looking for a third, and ladies looking for some girl on girl action.

Most men have had far less conversations with women about sex, than they have watch porn. So porn becomes the teacher of how to sexually interact with women, and the porn on this site doesn't help. No porn ever shows the courtship part of a relationship, and although this is a sex site, there is still a great deal of courtship that goes on.

It may be the pot calling the kettle black, but for the most part we (both men and women) spend to much time complaining about things, in the hopes that someone else will fix it, instead of taking action ourselves. I will say the same thing to you that I have said in the other blogs! Most men who join this site think they join up, and "fuck a hottie tonight". They don't read profiles, and they don't read blogs. They will however read a message from a lady. AUTO-RESPOND is the key to curving the ignorant male messaging behavior, and it all in your hands.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


porterpiper1 replies on 12/11/2013 2:31 am:
But you know that where a lot of men see women and think thats what all women want and like. Porn is great but it is not reality

pal334 69M  
45821 posts
11/30/2013 6:14 am

Men should act just as they would in person, politely(hopefully). There is nothing wrong with just starting the potential conversation without vulgarity

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porterpiper1 replies on 11/30/2013 9:20 pm:
pal334, I wish men view it from your stand point, But they see sex site and think about a porn movie,

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