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The Sense of Attraction
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The Sense of Attraction The Sense(s) of Physical Attraction ***WARNING*** obligatory masturbation reference Since I have my lotion delivered monthly (55 gallon drum size), I haven't run out. Though I have lost a few pounds and am finding it difficult to remain well hydrated.  This blogticle was inspired by common themes from other blog authors I follow - you know who I am  Physical: Visual attraction typically starts the ball rolling but I'm including all physical aspects/senses in this section i.e. smell, feel, taste, oral - keep our minds above gutter level for the moment - and of course, the visual. Certain aspects can be changed easily enough - hair, nail, tanning salons, makeovers, plastic surgeons, fashion and exercise for the visual sense. Perfumes, colognes, soaps, shampoos, mouthwash...etc for the sense of smell and lotions for the feel of ones skin. Taste can be modified with products specifically made for the occasion or common products found at the local grocer. But only the oral aspect plays a significant role in the expression of the other two (2) aspects. Without oral, the personality is much more difficult to honestly express or discern. I write this knowing full well this is a visual medium and a lot may be learned about a person through written word but due to the very nature of text, the final product is not one of spontaneity of interaction but more of a single sided measured expression composed in a comfortable environment. (The same could be said for sex nowadays  ) Same applies to visual expression of ones personality through fashion, tattoos, piercings...etc. But listen for a moment to the voice you've ascribed to me while you’re reading this. Do you think I actually sound like that? Is my voice in the upper voice registry? lower? Is my voice soft and smooth or unusually loud, raspy, hoarse or maybe an exotic accent or a lisp. Text allows for these flights of fancy for the reader as well as a final, occasionally well thought out, expression of my personality. Bottom line: Text a.k.a. written word, has no inherent time limit and is largely a passive activity. Conversation (oral) however is by definition, interactive. I've found verbal jousting offers excellent insight into sexual compatibility. However, care must be taken because once spoken, it’s out and cannot be unheard. Lawyers use this to great effect in the courtroom even if it is edited out in the official court transcript. Brains: Need to be careful here - we all have "moments of clarity" and "moments of mud". I'm of the belief everyone has something useful to contribute in any given situation. In fact, some of the happiest people I've ever met were sacking groceries at the local store - not too bright but extremely happy to be contributing. But without a certain level of intelligence equality, there won't be a connection, at least not for long. I don't want to bore my partner nor be bored by them while we wait for the next round. Personality: Here is where the brains and physical come to together for expression of the total package; the wrapper if you will. Blending of the intelligence to compensate for the physical as much or little as necessary to become socially acceptable or not. i.e. - "has a great personality" or "not the sharpest knife in the drawer but with a body that won't quit" or "smart as a whip but doesn't have enough sense to come in out of the rain". Those phrases are society’s polite way of extolling the virtues in lieu of what’s perceived as flaws. At the end of the day, as with most things, it depends on application - what you are looking for. Simple carnal pleasure - NSA? Physical will do, but don't talk, you'll ruin it. Here's hoping your basket is empty Basket Theory and your algebra skills are improving Algebra is Like Sex |
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