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What the hell do I have to do here?
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What the hell do I have to do here? There are only a couple of women here to whom this does not apply. For the rest of you, here is today’s topic….. You know, I have been here a while now and I don’t know if people here (women) are just TOO BUSY, too stuck up, too superior, too PICKY, or too buried under e-mails, flirts and chat requests to even say HI to other members who try to make contact with them or WHAT. All I know is that I have reached out in a classy, respectful way to each and practically every person I have wanted to talk to and I hear NOTHING back. OK ok, I have had a few answers but those answers are a “Thanks but No Thanks” message. How can this BE? Come on ladies. At least ACKNOWLEDGE guys when they reach out to you even if it’s to say “FUCK OFF ASSHOLE!” At least that way I will know if I missed out on a bitch or not….lol Now that I have pissed all of you off…..write me and tell me about it! I DARE YOU. LOL |
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I've been talking with a few of the people I've responded to on this site, and they tell me I'm one of the first to respond to their emails/flirts/etc. I do try to respond to those that reach out to me in an intelligent manner. but if they can't put thought into their communications or their message is some crude and tacky pickup line from middle school, i'm not going to put energy into giving them a response either. I know that men are vastly outnumbered on the site, and sadly the women on here are either fakes, tacky, or think they are better than every guy on here... they fit that litany of characteristics you rattled off earlier, and they make some us look bad. I like to think I am one of those few women you mentioned in the beginning. I think that if the communication you get is decent and well-intentioned, a girl should respond, even if its to say you aren't interested. i'm sorry you've not had much luck with the nicer examples of the female gender, but I wish you much luck in the future. Trav
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DUDE THIS IS WHY THEY HAVE US TO DO PROFILES AND TELL WHAT WE WANT AND DON'T WANT. TRY READING THE ENTIRE PROFILE FIRST BEFORE YOU CONTACT SOMEONE. THERE ISN'T A LAW TO STATE YOU HAVE TO RESPOND TO EVERYONE THAT CONTACT YOU. IF HE OR SHE IS NOT YOUR TYPE OR VICE VERSE THEN WHY BOTHER. I GET ANGRY BECAUSE IT IS IN MY PROFILE THE TYPE OF MEN I AM LOOKING BUT YET THE ONES I AM NOT INTO STILL CONTACT ME, AND NO I DON'T RESPOND BECAUSE THEY NEED TO LEARN TO READ WITH THEIR EYES AND BRAINS NOT THEIR DICK.IT ISN'T RUDE, PEOPLE NEED TO STOP BLAMING OTHER FOR THEIR MISTAKES OF NOT READING THE ENTIRE PROFILE
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1 post 8/31/2013 4:03 am |
Porterpiper, Thank you for making my case! Do you REALLY assume that I have not read the profiles that I respond to? THAT is a huge assumption and one you cannot make! I DO read the profile and I KNOW that I meet the "qualifications" outlined there. If I am not what they are looking for then I DON'T write to them. Here is another thing. I take a lot of time to be sure that when I respond to an ad that I hit on all the criteria to prove that I INDEED am a quality candidate. My e-mails have substance and are 100% genuine. That's is what I am complaining about! In the odd instance that I meet all but one small requirement, I still put my best effort into highlighting all the reasons why I am a match. Nobody can be 100% compatible in the big picture and we all have to be able to accept people as they are, including some attributes that are annoyances etc. If you think that you have no qualities that aggravate others then you have some real soul searching to do. All of these are reasons why you SHOULD respond. Who the hell made you so superior that you don't feel any need to respond? How is that concept logical to you?? These people are not trying to contact you to upset and pester you! You are here to meet people and people are trying to meet you. Not responding is the highest measure of disrespect. If you can't even put in the small amount of effort it takes to respond to an e-mail with a "Thanks for writing but I don't feel we are a match. Good luck in your search" then YOU my lady are the problem. It's the same thing as you meeting someone in public and they reach out and say hello....do you look them in the eye, give them the once over and just walk away without even so much as a hello? I doubt it. If you do then you truly area a bitch and no one, male OR female deserves to have to put up with that. Saying hello does not obligate you to date them. It obligates you to say hello in return and after that you either continue speaking or you say a kind "good bye" and keep walking. How is that too big of a bother? We have profiles so you can quickly gather information about people and nothing more. It is the equivalent to the first impression in person. People are more than what you see at a first glance and people are more than they can state in a short profile. Come down off your thrown and talk to people. Because you have titts and a pussy doesn't mean you have the right to be judge and jury and convict so quickly, especially when the evidence you are using is so incomplete. If having all the people that write to you annoys you then why are you here? You are here to attract attention and that is what you are getting. The people that write you are no different. They want attention too. The problem is that you, like the majority of women here, are the hunted. You have all the power and you abuse it when you opt not to answer every e-mail. The men are the hunters. There are so many more men than women that a guy HAS to spread a broad net. Even the best hunters miss the shot more than they hit the target on the first try. This is a situation that you are just as responsible for as anyone else by the way you treat the people who write to you. Come on. Join society. Speak when you are spoken to and be kind to people. Is that really that hard?
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