64 posts 11/1/2016 9:01 am
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I do whatever it takes
It took me years to realize that the best lover is the pleased lover. I lived for years with the illusion that lovers are independent from each other in receiving joy from sexual intercourse. Only recently it crossed my mind that we are co-responsible for the pleasure of our lover. The media which we have elected as mentors of our sexual<b> education </font></b>are wrong, once again. They pay too much attention to the charisma of the body, the behavior and the nobility of the person, and provide recipes that guarantee satisfaction as long as the lovers can keep their distance and their anonymity and preserve their inner quality untouched, unrevealed.
“I do what I do. If you do not get satisfaction, it is your problem.”
I could write a book around this phrase. “I do whatever it takes so that you get satisfaction, then it’s your turn.” That’s much better! My new lover would also add. “You first, always!” That was the turning moment of my experience. A woman that is pleased before myself is the one that loves me best.
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4511 posts 11/3/2016 3:21 pm |
Hmmm... The internet is awash with "sex gurus" promising failsafe methods to sexual satisfaction.
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