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Blogs > sasha3676 > Fairy of the Forest

Ladies ,it's not a marriage proposal:)  

sasha3676 66F  
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2/23/2014 7:31 am

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Ladies ,it's not a marriage proposal:)

I blog for a number of reasons Sometimes to share an emotion, or a poem,sometimes to be funny and sometimes to share my experiences about the people in my life.
Of all my female friends it seems I am the one to come to for words of wisdom,advice, a shoulder to cry on and a free therapy session..lol.I am a great listener and my patience is endless.
A number of my friends are on dating sites.. the more traditional ones like match since their favorite name for this site is fuck finder
So being the great listener and consoler they come to me when they have issues with the men on the site.
A common complaint among them is that the men seem interested..sending extensive emails, asking questions,showing interest and then the last message..silence.
Well, it is the nature of these dating sites for people to reach out to a number of people and some of the reasons they stop corresponding could be one of the following.
1. They found someone closer
2.They found someone they have more in common with
3. You have said something and they think you may be the clingy type
4. They found someone they are more attracted to
5.Despite their apparent charm they are really creeps and you are better off

The other thing my friends do when this happens is tell me the ways they will get back at this person..unfriend them, block them, think of devious ways to get them off the site and other less than admirable thoughts..we've all had those thoughts.The point is whether we have acted on them.
So I tell them... the best thing to do is move on,be mature,be classy,learn through the experience and realize this is the nature of dating sites and most of all remember..
Ladies,it's not a marriage proposal

If you have any thoughts on this please feel free to share them.Sasha

roger19664 76M  
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2/21/2020 8:26 am

 So women actually have this problem. I thought it was only men. I have heard everything: too far, too old, married, looks dont appeal, cocks too small, and on and on.


undercoverman7 71M
3 posts
3/22/2015 8:19 am

 This advice applies to both men and women as both sexes have trouble accepting the fact that this is a numbers game and most of us end up getting the short end of the stick. Persistence is probably the only way to give yourself a better chance to be successful. I don't mean pestering one person so much as finding a number of people who attract you and send them all a message.


bikeboy513 73M
4 posts
1/13/2015 12:54 pm

 Very insightful, you do have a way with words, and a down to earth approach to life it seems.


cleon444 65M
5 posts
3/3/2014 6:46 am

 Very sound advice..another reason may be that the person is not that good with connecting with others, therefore they are trying it online in the safety and privacy of their home and when it gets a little closer to perhaps meeting,they get cold feet or just aren't ready and they don't know how to tell the other person..just a thought...I do like your outlook Sasha


sasha3676 replies on 3/3/2014 2:44 pm:
Thank you for sharing your perspective on this and it certainly is a possibility

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