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~~~ Dominance in a relationship I'm interested in what you all think...(note: my choice of words below is only to provoke thought and stimulate conversation, not to denigrate either gender) Do you feel that men, by natural selection, are supposed to play the dominant role? Or do you feel some women are meant to take the lead in a relationship ? As you can see this post is kind of vague, I would like to stimulate some conversation on this subject.        |
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In my culture it is usually the man that is the dominate partner.
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We like to switch, making it more thrilling n different. However, purists would say that we aren't true D/S when we switch, saying that we are just roleplaying or committed to the life style.We have no set pattern, so each time could be different. Most males would like to think they are dominate, an ego thing. Some males in leadership roles like to relinquish that power to be submissive, relaxing from their day to day duties as a leader, letting someone else (the female) take control. Some females are control freaks, but rare, liking to be in command, leading to the impression that they are leaning towards being more male than female. Not always, though, as some doms are totally female, acting feminine rather than masculine. Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad! Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum!  submokey Become a watcher! THINK PINK!
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Personally, I feel that men, by natural selection, are supposed to play the dominant role? And actually not just any man. I believe that I could only submit to the Alpha. However, at the same time, I understand some men crave to be a sub. Oh well, as long as they are happy ... why not. But the thing is not many people understand the meaning of Dominant. Most of the time they understand it as "Rough sex" . Some even confuse D/s with BDSM. You got so many beautiful pics there.. *heart heart [image] 
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In my culture it is usually the man that is the dominate partner. [image]
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We like to switch, making it more thrilling n different. However, purists would say that we aren't true D/S when we switch, saying that we are just roleplaying or committed to the life style.We have no set pattern, so each time could be different. Most males would like to think they are dominate, an ego thing. Some males in leadership roles like to relinquish that power to be submissive, relaxing from their day to day duties as a leader, letting someone else (the female) take control. Some females are control freaks, but rare, liking to be in command, leading to the impression that they are leaning towards being more male than female. Not always, though, as some doms are totally female, acting feminine rather than masculine.
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I am dominant in my relationship currently with my FWB...she has chosen to be my sub. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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A great topic Pal. Each couple will decide what role they want to play. For one it is the male who is dominate and for others it is the female who is. If you can find the right mix you have a great relationship. hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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In any relationship it is all about trust and how far is the limits. hugs V    Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Interesting post. I think it's society rather than genes that push men to be dominant. In a relationship, dominance/submissiveness should be negotiated in a consensual way. Sexually, I'm fairly dominant but don't mind the occasionally being dominated!  [image]
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I am dominant in my relationship currently with my FWB...she has chosen to be my sub. [image]
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Well put, you are bringing out many points that I was looking for. I think submission is a gift that she gives to a special guy, it must be earned by him. And of course, being submissive is not for, nor is it in the character of every woman. And you are right mixing of the two is not for everyone, they can be in the same relationship, but is not a necessity ----- SO true ------ Viva D/s 
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In any relationship it is all about trust and how far is the limits. hugs V [image] 
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Personally, I think the domination and submission, done in a natural way can spice up the moment. To me it only makes sense in light form. Hugs! A única alegria isenta de amargura é a de bem proceder.
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Personally, I think the domination and submission, done in a natural way can spice up the moment. To me it only makes sense in light form. Hugs! [image]
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To be dominated in my eyes....means I trust my partner to mentally and physical explore my submission to them. Together we journey to places where my mind desires and my body enjoys. Most of the men I’ve had the pleasure of releasing to, have been in dominance roles and very few allowed me the option of dominating them. I don’t view dominance as a gender option but rather as one that allows the mind and body to embrace the different levels of desires.  [image]
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