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this title was once involved in a foriegn language.... the intrugue?????????????
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this title was once involved in a foriegn language.... the intrugue????????????? To me, all sex starts as an idea. Even if the idea is to find someone to lay on get Your nut and toddle off into a brighter more relaxed future, it still starts as an idea. Granted "I need to get laid" isn't as byzantine as some of my ideas of fun but it is nevertheless an idea. i think a lot of the problems people have stem from the fact that the culture from which many of these ideas arise by it's very nature tends to rely on what i feel to be the wrong or minor components of what is in fact a somewhat fraught process even if it is just two individuals using each other to "get off". Some of You may be thinking, "seek, dude (we hope we have a least achieved 'dude' status) (with our beloved friends anyway) (everyone else can too) (we think we are democratic like that) (we hallucinate a lot) (so maybe not) (life is teeming with uncertainty) (enjoy it) The problem with our culture is that we are bombarded with and rely too much on visual stimulus and the media we use to receive said stimuli relies almost exclusively on the 5 second explanation. You also have a great many repressive and fucked up attitudes toward sex and sexual behaviors and the cartoon representations of these behaviors and the piling on of one type of information do nothing to help. One of the main problems with this is what i like to call the "magic" solution to interpersonal relations. Apparently in this situation one magically connects with another person and all kinds of wonderful shit just magically "happens". i often think of how this magic is supposed to occur when it's hit our miss whether or not the food order is right from the fast food joint. Maybe if that ever starts going off without a hitch for a couple of years or so (possible trust issues?) (too many reality enemas) (oooooh gross) (like Super Chicken always says) (yes he is one of our heroes) (no we will not sing that wind wings song) (Super Chicken can't fly) (what with being a chicken and all) (he may also have some gender identity issues since technically 'he' would be a 'rooster') (we like him no matter what) (and don't worry about stupid shit like that) (like we do with all the people we like) (two likes) (You are witnessing the possible death of the english language here) (slow down Your car) (make a traffic jam) (we don't talk about the flying thing when Super Chicken is around) (we are trying to be careful of people's feelings) (mixed results still abound) i still won't believe in magical shit in regards to something two people have to "no bullshit" talk about. Do i think there is no "magic" at all? FUCK NO!!! Can there sometimes be such a great connection that "magic" occurs spontaneously? FUCK YEAH!!! i will however be kind of a prick now and point out that's why there are anecdotes and war stories. The become those things because they are singular in nature and also kind of rare. Since my life goal (Goddess supplied correction) (it used to be career goal) (right is however right) (we also love thinking about things in different ways) (so three cheers for outside influences) is a monogamous long term relationship (sighs of relief in minor parts of Blog-ri-la) (if You're not actually just clicking out) (what took You so long?) (seek help) (or at least autostimulation) (that's right!) (the car!!) (sheesh!!!) i kind of figure being honest and talking a lot might be the way to go. i always start out a relationship asking my significant other to please tell me. i am probably the world's worst subtle signal reader. i don't understand or pay attention to my subtle signal and am frankly not even sure i have any. i have been told i do so i will go with that but i am not aware of them. Consequently, i have no shot at even knowing that Her's happened. It's way better to lovingly start the conversation with something like, "hey, einstein did you know???". i like to know if something is pissing my someone off. i also like to know what is getting my someone off. Less of the first and more of the latter is usually no problem at all once i know what the deal is. i understand all that mystical magical mystery shit sounds really good and is certainly very attractive. It sure does sell a lot of shit people really don't need. i just happen to be one of those perverts who thinks a real thing with a real Goddess/Lover/Friend/Person/Woman is worth a lot more than whatever sells pit juice (our loving name for deodorant) (we have less than stellar product loyalty) (our people loyalty is outstanding) (we have skewed cultural priorities) (and some lovely perversions and fetishes) (we hope we are bags of fun) or cars, or hair product, or beer or boner pills or feminine hygiene spray (hey that was our job!) [well stop fucking off] (we will lurk about this one) (vengeance will be ours) (if we remember) (which we probably won't) (we like immediacy better) [so??] (nevermind) [you could just say 'fuck it' and get back to work] (okay) (he has mellowed) (down to grade two psycho) (still mellowed) (scary, yes?) Where was i??? hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (we we going to go bwahahahahetc..) (but we felt that was wrong) [are You happy i'm getting rained off and having a health day?] (he know where he was) (he's just being a dick) or whatever other shit they are trying to sell. i would rather buy less shit and know more about my Goddess. (see!) (he really is a pervert) PS all the happy faces and italics and things are as usual a total accident. Therefore they can mean whatever You want. |
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all sex for me starts out as an idea...would you like to hear my ideas?
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all sex for me starts out as an idea...would you like to hear my ideas?
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