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Tinder Nobody writes me back here (understandable, AGAIN how many times do I have to acknowledge for myself this isn't the right venue for me?), so I do a lot of searching on POF. WELL. Nobody writes me back there, either! Even the girl who's profile said 'I'll let you down easy' just looked at me and nothing. I emailed her again playfully remorseful that I can't even get let down easy by the girl who says that's what she'll do. She wrote back in good humor and we shared a laugh. THE END. Because I'm not a bastard psycho who will hound you to the ends of the earth! I'm not getting any younger either, and it doesn't do me any favors to chase someone who's not interested. Been in TN three months on the 8th! No dates yet! THE real life encounters are good, but I guess I'm still too shy or stupid. Anyway I mention this to my housemate friend, and she suggests Tinder. I've heard of it and know it's a phone thing, but beyond that... nada. So I get on the computer and sign up for TinderPC! OH, theres... 8 women on TinderPC in my area. Looks like the phone application is where it's at. So I get the phone thing and set up a facebook page ONLY for this (I don't want linked to my facebook, I don't even want that but it remains a good network for old friends). Do my likes and dislikes, over the weekend get a match. I send her a few messages, and then go about my day. WELL SHE WROTE BACK HOLY SHIT. ON MY FIRST TRY. WTF? Ten thousand times better than websites already. She showed some definite interest, and I wrote back again. Later on it shows me that I got another message from her! YES!!!! Tinder doesn't work now. I go to view her message, and her profile is gone from matches. In tinderland (not quite hinterlands), that means they decided not to like you anymore. NOT the vibe I got at all from her prior message. I logged out, and back in. She was back in my matches! I sent her a message explaining I didn't get her last one I think my tinder is glitchy. I'm getting error messages on the program I shouldn't, from things I've never tried (to buy stuff, I never tried but it keeps saying purchase failed). I sent her some more messages, apologizing for my potential intrusion if she DID not like me, but expressing my confusion that she still appears on matches, I think the program is glitchy. My last message was asking her if she would email me at my regular email because I just don't think tinder is working for me. I can't even FIND any PEOPLE anymore to like or not! Endless searching since Sunday! It is now Tuesday evening. I emailed their tech support about it saturday (no response, maybe it's the weekend?) then again this morning... still no response on either ticket. WHY am I going through such a length to even TALK to this girl? WELL you're on Affairlook! But seriously- who knows if we would actually like each other. I just REALLY THINK SO based on her brief description and pictures. Musician, plays guitar, likes to garden, do stuff outside. I'm all like, hey, these are interests which really align with mine! YOU FUCKING MACHINESSSSS I finally find an avenue to travel, and the machines stop me. I think my next DESPERATE move is to put a missed connection on craigslist. Why can't I win in this digital world? Maybe that's why I'm so resolved to manipulate the physical world around me via carpentry, masonry, and all THAT crap. Anybody- find MEEEEEEEE- somebody to love somebody somebody somebody too oo oo love |
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