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Witness RDX37: slow motion train wreck
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Witness RDX37: slow motion train wreck SO, I'll post some emails that I've sent to women. I hope you will see my problems and flaws from an angle I cannot, and make suggestions to help me. Off the bat, I only try to email women with who I think I would have more than a physical attraction. The whole 'friends' part of the 'with benefits' deal. I try and style my message so that it matches the tenor of her profile. Lets take the last serious email I sent! --- Her profile(standard member only): Age 36F (five pictures, clearly good photos). Status: "Single and lonely". description: I'm like a delicate flower who needs help and support. I believe that family values and a good quality of life is an essential base for creating a happy family.I easily find common topics of conversation with people, and you can be assured of my honesty. I am never bored, my hobbies are: fishing, camping, swimming, adventure, gardening and volunteer service. ---- Sure, she's only a member since 2/29, and this has all the classic markings of a fake profile. The single and lonely status, should be enticing to someone who is *shock* also single and lonely! The declaration of needs in the first sentence, almost surely is code for 'you gotsta pay!'. Then into the family values shtick, but it segues into a nice bit of individuality at the end. I'm still skeptical, but I choose to give her the benefit of the doubt. She is very pretty. So here is the email I sent: Hello Miss! You have some lovely and stunning photographs on your profile. Very sensual and appealing  ] . I'm sure you've got 300 emails today. I hope mine stands out!I like the way you think and your goals for the future. Mine are similar, in regards to raising a family and enjoying a nice life with one partner. Could I interest you in an email conversation, or perhaps buy you a coffee sometime? RDX *face picture of me attached* ---- Lets try another one, and compare. --- Her profile(Gold member): Age 35F *30 pictures, very clear* Status: searching for U!! description: I'm happy person.love dancing,(Zumba)singing,cooking,name it! My Ideal Person: Simple but elegant! --- This is definitely a real woman, no doubt of that with this profile. Sure, the text was short, but she shows a lot of personality in her photos. So here's what I tried: Hello Miss, I must say I found your pictures to be stunningly attractive. You have got a rockin' body and beautiful features all around. I'm also a happy person, who enjoys the many activities life has to offer. I have fun doing hard work as well. I find the people you work with can really make or break whatever it is you're doing. Could I buy you a cup of coffee sometime? I'd love to hang out and see if we click. Perhaps we could take a leisurely walk around town? Hope to hear back from you ]RDX *upper body shot of me sitting in my desk chair* ---- So, I noticed myself that I address most women as 'miss', so I have tried shake it up a little by addressing their screen name, or a possibly obvious real name in the screen name. The whole reason I do this is because in real life when I am uncertain, if I refer to a woman as 'miss', regardless of her age, she is usually complimented by it. Yea, I've gotten a couple 'Don't you Miss me, bub,' over the years, but those women are solid characters, you'd love them. LAST ONE (sorry for such a long, boring, post). --- Her profile(Gold member): Age 48F *14 pictures, older cell phone quality, but not bad* Status: let's get acquainted. description: My Ideal Person Looking a man who knows how to treat a woman the right way --- The short profile is usually a sign for me to not waste my time, but when people put up a lot of pictures, I'll probably try (if I'm attracted to you). I tried to talk to this woman on the IM first: Hello sexy Woman ]Great pictures. You are especially beautiful in the recent one with the green dress. The dress really accentuates your lovely figure very well. I was hoping to possibly get acquainted with you today, but as soon as I clicked 'Send IM' you had gotten offline. Oh well! I'm very close to you, in *MUNICIPALITY*. I am an open minded easygoing individual, who enjoys satisfying his partner ] . I like chocolate (understatement), comedies, all kinds of music, good food, good drinks, attempting to broaden my horizons...Seaweed just isn't a crave like chocolate. I tried it, though! The fish can have it. I wish I were the guy who dreamed it up. "I know, we can sell the people SEA weed and market it as super healthful! Virtually no overhead and all profit!" "good work Johnson, you've earned your annual 10% raise, this time." I'm sorry if you are really in to seaweed and I have offended you. ]If not, hope to hear back from you ]RDX *picture of my clothed upper torso/face* ----- I don't send dick pics in the emails, unless it is specifically asked for. Always the face. There you have it, folks! My obviously terrible writing style. Perhaps it is just my personality that is such a turn off for these women. This is only a sample of three emails, too. They are all sort of like that. So what am I doing that is such a bad thing to do? Am I too cheesy? Too confident, too cheerful, too lame, too mediocre, not sexual enough, eh? Please help me with any feedback, don't hold back. Let me have it. Tell me what I'm doing wrong, or why you personally wouldn't have anything to do with me. Not only did these three women not write me back, they didn't even look at my profile. I have a huge blind spot somewhere, please put up some mirrors and shine some light. Do it for the . 
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you are overly sexual in an opening statement ... you don't need to say you find her attractive or sexy .. that is a turn off as we assume you will want to talk sex and nothing but sex (happens a lot on here). Talk about what in her profile attracted you to it besides her looks ... if you are writing to her, she assumes you like her looks already. And most of us want to chat a bit, either here, email or text before we will want to meet for a coffee. Just my 2 cents ...which is fairly worthless in Canada now that we abolished the penny 
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