Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > TabooKinkForMom > You Know Somebody's a Dumb Ass |
You Know Somebody's a Dumb Ass When (Their Racist Confessions are Supposed to be a Compliment)
|
You Know Somebody's a Dumb Ass When (Their Racist Confessions are Supposed to be a Compliment) Well, it has been quite some time since i have been motivated to post any of the stupid shit i encounter here on Affairlook, as most of it is simply a variation of idiots about whom i have already written. BUT, Affairlook MEMBER, THUNDER9494, TAKES THE FUCKING CAKE!  an arrogant white boy from newport, WROTE TO ME, i do not need to be validated by being the fucking (no pun intended) exception to a white boy's rule that he doesn't fuck black women! i wrote back and then saw that in his profile he listed that he likes women of all races but doesn't include black women...no problem, his prerogative. BUT, then he has the nerve to write to ME, obviously a woman of color, described as such in my profile AND obviously so from my pic. i don't discriminate and love men of all races but i don't like racists of any race. so, after reading his profile, i write back and attempt to "clarify" his intentional exclusion of black women from his profile's list of the women he likes. giving him the benefit of the doubt and the ability to explain to me his position about dating women of color. well, not only did the dolt clarify his position on NOT liking to date women of color but he made it insultingly clear that his reason for not doing so is because he is "picky about who he has sex with!" WTF?????? ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!?! As one can imagine, i was very fucking insulted. either the guy is a racist asshole or a complete idiot who is too stupid to know he is insulting a race of women, yet alone me, to whom he is writing. anyway, check out the email exchange below. he starts out fine and then quickly devolves into a pile of shit within a couple of emails: _____________________________________________ _____________________________________________ Sender: Thunder9494 To: TabooKinkForMom Date: Jan 19, 2012 7:14 PM PST I don't even know where Sunland is but you have probably the most eloquent and thoroughly explained profiles I've read. Which makes me want to get to know you a little more... So, if you like what you see would love to chat with you and see where it goes. Ty P.S. About your taboo fetishes...some of them sound very interesting. Sender: TabooKinkForMom To: Thunder9494 Date: Jan 22, 2012 10:55 pm PST hello, ty. thank you for your note. i am very much a believer in establishing clarity so as not to waste time. i was not able to click through to your profile. send your profile to me and give me a chance to read a bit about you. i would expect that you have taken the time to actually describe yourself, as i did, and that you also answered the profile prompts/questions have a great monday! tkfm Sender: TabooKinkForMom To: Thunder9494 Date: Jan 23, 2012 11:39 am PST hello, thank you for your note. i read your attached profile and i must admit that there wasn't anything there which left me feeling like i had a sense of who you are as a man and what you are seeking, other than the obvious desire to meet women. i am very much into synergy, chemistry, energy, and passion. i am not into the superficialities of life that attract most people, like moths to a flame. it is great that you own a business but that is the salient aspect of yourself that you choose to present to the world and it seems to me that doing so is an attempt to deflect who you really are and what you want and need to satisfy your soul, not just satisfy your genitals. in the spirit of authenticity, i believe one must be able to stand and be accepted for all that one embodies, stripped naked of external distractions. my pursuit is not about getting fucked or finding NSA partners or having boring, unsatisfying one night stands. while my profile details various sexual behaviors that i would like to explore, i am patient, selective and far more interested in intellectual stimulation, as opposed to sexual stimulation. so, that being said, i completely understand if you are not at all interested in any level of intellectual pursuit that might lead to an authentic, enhanced connection with a real human being which might then lead to more, sexually, emotionally and otherwise. do know that i would enjoy learning about who you are, how you think, what you feel, what you really desire but have never shared, and how you perceive your place in the world around you. these are the things that pave the way to enjoying and sharing taboo kinks, imho. tkfm Sender: Thunder9494 To: TabooKinkForMom Date: Jan 23, 2012 11:26 PM PST Well, I choose to present the basics of what I like and who I am in my profile and if there's interest then we can chat online and/or on the phone later. I was amazed how much you wrote on your profile. I realize you want everything out in the open so there are no misunderstandings. But I prefer to talk about the details only if there's an inital connection. I agree with you, one does need to be able to stand and be accepted stripped naked of external distractions. But the fact remains external distractions are what we see first and then get to know the man/woman through conversation and their actions. Some use the distractions to complete themselves and some just have them and can stand alone and be accepted. You get to decide after you talk/meet them. I am definitely more into intellectual stimulation than just sex. As you saw on my profile, I'm open to all races but black women are not on the top of the list. Not that I have never been with black women but its because I'm picky who I have sex with. And to tell you the truth I'm not around a whole lot of black women in Newport Beach. So, if you do want to learn more about who I am, what and how I think etc...I'd like to keep chatting and see where it goes. My name is Ty. Whats yours? hi ty, with regard to your being picky about who you have sex with and, therefore, black women are not at the top of your list is quite the ignorant insult! i simply would not know where to begin to understand your statement and how sexual promiscuity and selectivity has anything to do with race. you come across as having absolutely no racial sensitivity or awareness, whether intentionally or due to ignorance. i have dated men of all races and would never classify nor make sweeping judgments of a race of people based upon the color of one's skin or the behavior of individuals with whom i had interactions. Irrespective of race, i am exceptional in my intellect, beauty, character, and compassion. thus, i am quite selective with regard to the company i keep, not only in regard to sex, as sex is a filter which is simplistic and not necessary when one is actually selective at a much higher level of critical thought. best of luck to you. |
|||
5/30/2021 5:34 pm |
What a Dick head…
| ||
|
that's what happen whne you leave the door open. anyone can come in!
| ||
|
he sounds like a moron.
| ||
|
well, i certainly appreciate different points of view. it was NOT his profile that i found offensive, it was his subsequent correspondence. i simply don't see how anyone can say to another person that they don't date your race because they are picky about who they have sex with. there is simply no other way to interpret this comment, other than as offensive, imho.
| ||
|
i understand your analysis. i would actually agree with you, up to the point where he indicates he does NOT have sex with black women because he is picky about the women with whom he has sex (BS, i know). my point is that he chose to specifically single out black women as being not his normal choice. you can see from my emails to him that i did not hold against him the fact that black women were not included in his top list. either he is stupid or racist, which i stated in my blog post. either way, i am not interested.
| ||
|
nope. i will post any and all information that i choose which is a communication sent directly to me. if an Affairlook member wants to be stupit, racist, etc., then that is not my issue...idiots, beware!!!
|
Become a member to create a blog
