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Blogs > spiderj72 > Going to Hell for sure

It is hard to do.  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
10/27/2011 8:33 am
It is hard to do.

For those of you singing along at home the topic is waking up. Hence the title of this post. When Uncle spider blew up his first marriage he was away from a marital bed for a long period of time. In the last number of years of that marriage i had not shared a bed with my spouse and then was working out of province for four months after that.

When i finally did get together with a young lady and charm her pants off i found that no matter how much liquor had been consumed and what time of day it was i could not sleeo beside her. I could have been dead tired and had marathon sex and i couldnt stay laying beside her while she slumbered. I would find my clothes and bail in the middle of the night.

Waking up has another conotation that i want to talk about and that is having that moment of clarity in a relationship. That one that says hey we should make this legal, or conversely hey i need to get the fuck out of here before she kills me. I have been very poor at these moments of clarity. I would have cashiered my first marriage very early on and not had it go as long as it did.

I have also not pulled my head out of my ass and realized the good friends i had wanted a little something more from me. What does all this mean. Nothing really or a lot, it is a presonal thing i think and some of us are better at knowing this stuff than others.

I can tell you it all started today because i literally didnt want to wake up. I wanted to stay all warm and lovely in the wonder bed and not get out to the cold cruel world. Cant you just take a pass on getting out of bed some days. Oh well tune in next spider time when you might here me say something like eating a woman is the greatest service you can do yourself.

KCey2 64F

10/27/2011 3:44 pm

 seriously--- I love to sleep with a man--- cuddled and curled up--- touching and snoring--- the whole shabang!! I hate sleeping alone. sigh!


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/27/2011 5:13 pm
    Quoting  :
thanks for the hugs they are always appreciated. i am glad that you guys have worked out something that works for the two of you. hard for the spontaneous romance though isnt it?


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/27/2011 5:14 pm
    Quoting KCey2:
    seriously--- I love to sleep with a man--- cuddled and curled up--- touching and snoring--- the whole shabang!! I hate sleeping alone. sigh!
and it is reasoning like that that is going to get you a spider visit one day.


rm_impish_pixie 61F
6862 posts
10/28/2011 6:10 pm

 When the warm breezes of summer slip away, and the cold winds of winter barrel in...I find myself fighting the whole "get out of bed" thing too. It seems so unfair that I should have to leave my warm cacoon and face the day. But alas, I have yet to win the lottery and so I too have to step out into that cold, cruel (windy dammit), world.

And yea...I'm with Kcey2...I love sleeping next to a man and fitting myself up against all his parts.
I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/28/2011 6:45 pm
    Quoting rm_impish_pixie:
    When the warm breezes of summer slip away, and the cold winds of winter barrel in...I find myself fighting the whole "get out of bed" thing too. It seems so unfair that I should have to leave my warm cacoon and face the day. But alas, I have yet to win the lottery and so I too have to step out into that cold, cruel (windy dammit), world.

    And yea...I'm with Kcey2...I love sleeping next to a man and fitting myself up against all his parts.
yeah i am working on the whole lottery thing as well. somedays it is just heaven to roll back over and sleep for another hour.


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