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Why I love it here.  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
10/19/2011 7:41 am
Why I love it here.


I have to tell all you gentle readers that your Uncle spider loves this place and what it is about. Let me explain that further for you. Lately i have had the chance to really spend some time with the site, laying awake at three in the morning will do that for a guy.

I have found one fact that i will share with you and it makes all the difference to me. Outside of the scammers who feel they can pull the beginning of a photo shoot as their profile pic the rest of the women are real. Let me tell you this again because it is important that it sinks in they are REAL.

So big deal you say. I agree with you it is a big deal and one that doesnt get near enough focus as far as i am concerned. There are women on this site who have broken down their body image issues and have posed naked for us to enjoy. They are the genuine article, they are not some totally faked up barbie doll model.

If she states that she had DD cup breasts then she has the ass that follows it. She may also have the waist and thighs as well and damnit that is perfect.This is not an post in praise of bigger ladies, but damnit they are great too, but it is more to do with the raw reality of the photos you see.

You see scars, and imperfections. You see not model perfect skin but the flaws and stretch marks. You see lopsided smiles and asolute terror as they put themselves on display and oh how i love them for it. It is the most inspiring thing i have seen lately and it is so hard to tell people how inspired by them I am.

I appreciate the fact that you took the time set up your camera and get into that piece of lingerie that you never wear. I adore the fact that you said screw it this is what my ass looks like. I dig your creativity in the bubble bath. I see hats, and sunglasses and scarves and a whole lot of tasty bits. I see breasts and thighs and butts and so much more. I see women who are real and i fucking applaud you all. Except for that one who feels she has to use a model from a google search. Unless you are that model i am not interested, i am way more in love with the courage and ulitimate sexiness that comes from the real women on this site.

There sermon done. Guys one quick hint. If you want giant breasts they tend to come on giant bodies. That means that no only are you going to get great big boobage but you are going to get an ass and thighs to match. There is like 1% of the population that belong in adult magazines. If you chase them more real women for me.

gottaring 52F
15850 posts
10/19/2011 9:51 am

Permission to pimp?

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
10/19/2011 11:32 am

Wonderful post, Uncle Spider Real people are so much better than fake ones, I think

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

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spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:10 pm

    Quoting  :

odd figures will be personally checked out my crack staff of lefty and righty. the two finest nurses ever


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:11 pm

    Quoting  :

you are very welcome.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:13 pm

permission granted to pimp. your post about lying really kinda got this ball rolling.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:13 pm

    Quoting LadyUnlaced:
    Wonderful post, Uncle Spider Real people are so much better than fake ones, I think
glad i could make you happy. it bothers me somewhat the fakery i see. the real is so much better.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:14 pm

    Quoting  :

thank you.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 4:16 pm

    Quoting  :

it would be hypocritical of me to ask you ladies to put up naked pics if i dont have one myself. however if you feel the need to send me pics via email i wont deny looking at them.


KCey2 64F

10/19/2011 5:19 pm

did I mention that I LUV you lol!!!!????? happyf;


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 6:49 pm

    Quoting KCey2:
    did I mention that I LUV you lol!!!!????? happyf;
well no but i will take the hint, the hint is that you luv me right. good i thought i was missing the signals again.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 6:51 pm

    Quoting  :

you are very welcome. i am pleased that you have become comfortable in the shell and a beautiful inside will definately work to the outside and shine out for all to see. you really have nothing to be ashamed of at all.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
10/19/2011 8:20 pm

lol..i am like 4 feet 10 inches tall...so according to the health magazine, i got to weigh like 100 lbs??? i was like WTF??? i was 100 lbs when i was in 4th grade??? if someone wants to fuck it, that's like illegal...now, i am like 130 to 140 ish...so i guess that's like 30 lbs over weight...lol...oh heck...who cares...you only live once...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/19/2011 8:24 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    lol..i am like 4 feet 10 inches tall...so according to the health magazine, i got to weigh like 100 lbs??? i was like WTF??? i was 100 lbs when i was in 4th grade??? if someone wants to fuck it, that's like illegal...now, i am like 130 to 140 ish...so i guess that's like 30 lbs over weight...lol...oh heck...who cares...you only live once...
oh japaneseass you are like a little tiny bundle of awesome. i dig you from the tip of your head to the bottom of your feet. i always ask myself do you feel good where you are at? If the answer is good then rock on. BMI is bullshit and i gotta tell you four foot ten never looked so good.


rm_kissakat 59F
1030 posts
10/20/2011 7:14 am

Very nice post. Nice to know that a man can truly appreciate the real woman. If I were a man I would feel exactly the same way. It would be a privilege to be allowed to venture into the private places of a woman who knows she is far from perfect, but bypasses her insecurities to welcome you with eager lips. To be trusted with her flaws and imperfections and invited to partake of her gifts is a high honor. Thank you for recognizing that.

I dare say that the average woman is a more satisying challenge to attain than the perfect because the perfect woman sees herself as the gift. She is all too comfortable showing her body. She is all too familiar with being pursued. It is nothing out of the ordinary to be ogled, admired, wanted. Just another day in paradise. But, to the modest, unassuming woman, being treasured is in itself a treasure to her. Revealing her body is a big deal. Being loved and desired in spite of it all is heaven!

I've seen it said many times that BBW's are more passionate. Perhaps that is why.


gottaring 52F
15850 posts
10/20/2011 8:09 am

    Quoting rm_kissakat:
    Very nice post. Nice to know that a man can truly appreciate the real woman. If I were a man I would feel exactly the same way. It would be a privilege to be allowed to venture into the private places of a woman who knows she is far from perfect, but bypasses her insecurities to welcome you with eager lips. To be trusted with her flaws and imperfections and invited to partake of her gifts is a high honor. Thank you for recognizing that.

    I dare say that the average woman is a more satisying challenge to attain than the perfect because the perfect woman sees herself as the gift. She is all too comfortable showing her body. She is all too familiar with being pursued. It is nothing out of the ordinary to be ogled, admired, wanted. Just another day in paradise. But, to the modest, unassuming woman, being treasured is in itself a treasure to her. Revealing her body is a big deal. Being loved and desired in spite of it all is heaven!

    I've seen it said many times that BBW's are more passionate. Perhaps that is why.
Well said, Kat! As a card-carrying BBW (despite any impressions to the contrary, I think I fit the bill) I know that I appreciate the man who can appreciate my curves, my flaws, my scars...If you want the best of me, you have to Love the rest of me, too .

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/20/2011 11:33 am

    Quoting rm_kissakat:
    Very nice post. Nice to know that a man can truly appreciate the real woman. If I were a man I would feel exactly the same way. It would be a privilege to be allowed to venture into the private places of a woman who knows she is far from perfect, but bypasses her insecurities to welcome you with eager lips. To be trusted with her flaws and imperfections and invited to partake of her gifts is a high honor. Thank you for recognizing that.

    I dare say that the average woman is a more satisying challenge to attain than the perfect because the perfect woman sees herself as the gift. She is all too comfortable showing her body. She is all too familiar with being pursued. It is nothing out of the ordinary to be ogled, admired, wanted. Just another day in paradise. But, to the modest, unassuming woman, being treasured is in itself a treasure to her. Revealing her body is a big deal. Being loved and desired in spite of it all is heaven!

    I've seen it said many times that BBW's are more passionate. Perhaps that is why.
i thank the elder gods that the real women i know let me into their private places. it is ah honor and one that i try to respect. i am very grateful and will continue to be grateful. i have no idea if the BBW is more passionate, but would be more than willing to do field studies into if they are or not.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/20/2011 11:34 am

    Quoting gottaring:
    Well said, Kat! As a card-carrying BBW (despite any impressions to the contrary, I think I fit the bill) I know that I appreciate the man who can appreciate my curves, my flaws, my scars...If you want the best of me, you have to Love the rest of me, too .
amen sister, or whatever term of agreement you want me to use.


rm_impish_pixie 61F
6862 posts
10/20/2011 12:51 pm

I found you on GOTTARING's site quite by accident. It's been a long time since I felt any excitement in Blogland, as most of my reads have gone on to bigger things. I miss them...but I think I'm finally going to be able to fill my coffers with good reads once again.

What a beautifully expressed and well written blog. Thank you. Tis a rare man who knows that a woman needs to hear these things once in a while. It not only gives a bit of validation to us, it also makes you a man who thinks with his brain...and that my dear...(may I call you dear?)...is uber sexy.

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/20/2011 2:50 pm

    Quoting rm_impish_pixie:
    I found you on GOTTARING's site quite by accident. It's been a long time since I felt any excitement in Blogland, as most of my reads have gone on to bigger things. I miss them...but I think I'm finally going to be able to fill my coffers with good reads once again.

    What a beautifully expressed and well written blog. Thank you. Tis a rare man who knows that a woman needs to hear these things once in a while. It not only gives a bit of validation to us, it also makes you a man who thinks with his brain...and that my dear...(may I call you dear?)...is uber sexy.
well thanks miss pixie. you can call me anything you want as well. i tried to write what i was feeling and it seemed to strike a chord with readers. and you have to love gottaring as the pimp du jour. thanks again and i hope you stick around.


sonic_n_sideshow 51M/53F
15101 posts
10/23/2011 4:43 pm



You must have got some crazy accolades out of this post! It is an awesome rant!

Barbie has giant breasts and a little tiny body, but had she been living she apparently would have been about 7'2" as well. LOL

Liking the ladies myself too, I gotta say the real, GORGEOUS, women I find sharing their beautiful photos here is truly awesome!

I am a celebration of willful chaos and a hugger.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
10/23/2011 5:11 pm

    Quoting sonic_n_sideshow:


    You must have got some crazy accolades out of this post! It is an awesome rant!

    Barbie has giant breasts and a little tiny body, but had she been living she apparently would have been about 7'2" as well. LOL

    Liking the ladies myself too, I gotta say the real, GORGEOUS, women I find sharing their beautiful photos here is truly awesome!
thanks it does seem that there is a lot of positive and very little negative, thanks for stopping by hope you stick around.


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