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Blogs > wrMercury > Sanity of a madman

The Bi dilema  

wrMercury 46M
924 posts
1/25/2016 2:43 pm
The Bi dilema


I am bisexual. Many people read this as being gay. I enjoy playing with women and men. I actually prefer women most of the time, but I enjoy playing with men as well. I see this topic come up in other blogs as guys feel they can't get laid because people only see them as gay. One person even posted that all the bi guys are friends with other men so it looks like we are all gay.

Well, I can't control who sends me friend requests. Honestly I don't accept all of the friend requests I get. If you have never talked to me and live in another country, I am not accepting a friend request. And finding guys to be friends or have sex with is much easier than a woman or a couple with a woman. So judging people on who is in their friend list seems strange to me.

Of course I cross dress too. Not all the time, but on occasion for some fun. For me it is not a lifestyle thing like it is for others. Lingerie for me is a sex toy. I know others do it for different reasons, which I am fine with. But judging people for why they do it or what you assume they do it for is pretty much worthless.

So in reading other blogs over the past week or two, I am a little surprised at the attitudes of some people. Well, I can't say surprised as I know people in general all too well, but perhaps I am just a little upset at how I see people treat each other in here some days.

wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
1/25/2016 3:23 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank You


redmustang91 64M
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9760 posts
1/25/2016 4:03 pm

 Odd how bi men are stigmatized, while bi women are celebrated. Strange world.

Of the LGBT, the bi men seem to be the most discriminated against.


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
1/26/2016 2:22 pm
    Quoting redmustang91:
    Odd how bi men are stigmatized, while bi women are celebrated. Strange world.

    Of the LGBT, the bi men seem to be the most discriminated against.
I'm not sure I would call it discrimination so much as assumptions being placed on us. To me it boils down to what labels do we place on ourselves and each other and why do we bother doing it?


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
1/26/2016 2:23 pm
    Quoting yellowflower56:
    Its a shame that in this day and age,people still judge hard on what your preference is....I love my bi guys! In my opinion,they can communicate much easier about their sexual preference,and open to many possibilities,which straight men are not. Men think two women are hot that have sex,but totally against two men...sigh...There are many closed minded people, and quick to judge before thinking it might be fun! My best oral experiences have been with bi guys!
Exactly. I like to keep my options open for some experimentation and fun.


wrMercury 46M
1570 posts
1/31/2016 7:19 am
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Yeah, I think the Black works best for me too.


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