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Is it wrong for a woman to just want to meet on the first date?  

bbnatiivprincess 38F  
28 posts
12/22/2010 6:15 pm
Is it wrong for a woman to just want to meet on the first date?
Is it wrong for a woman to just want to meet on the first date? I talk to guys and they always say, "Yeah it's okay we'll just go out and grab a bite to eat" or so on. So when we're sitting there together talking and getting to know each other it seems like every line out of their mouths is leading to WHEN ARE WE GONNA FUCK? There are times when I talk to a guy and I know we're meeting just to mess around but that's not the case every time. Anyways, I don't think it is so wrong to reserve the first date just for meeting, do you?
Yes
No


extramarital4fun 61M
628 posts
12/22/2010 6:50 pm

 Try dating older men?


goodloyaldog 54M

12/22/2010 7:12 pm

 The whole purpose of meeting is to meet.

You meet to confirm your expectations...to validate your guesses...and maybe even start the next part of the conversation if you are ready.

Lots of stuff you can do to achieve that, but the minimum requirement is meeting.

Now if you feel a guy is impatient before you meet...Meet someone else. You have enough good choices in front of you. If he can't meet just to meet... Meh, move on.
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stevenjosepht 78M
3726 posts
12/22/2010 7:17 pm

 Just so there is no confusion: It is not wrong to just meet on the first date; that is acceptable.


JPHMaestrae 50M
245 posts
12/23/2010 5:22 pm

 well i get points for posting here so ---yeah its ok to meet to just meet but you need to make your intentions VERY clear-----this is Affairlook----and yes 90% of the time its eventually all about the sex-----to meet for dinner and drinks or a movie and then leave the guy high and dry with blue balls after you teased him online and on the phone is totally wrong----yet you got a free meal----girls have been doing this since ancient times. so while its DEFINITELY ok to meet just to meet and hang out----if thats your intention----SAY so-----true most guys should have no prob with that.....a couple might. so VMH---always be completely upfront. some guys you actually want to fuck and some you just want to tease.


bbnatiivprincess 38F  
15 posts
12/23/2010 5:25 pm

 Haha I do date older guys. Always been my thing. And they're never impatient before hand it's always when we're right in front of each other. I think it's nice to just take a few minutes and talk rather then rush into anything. I'll just have to keep looking for the right partner though.


bbnatiivprincess 38F  
15 posts
1/17/2011 9:34 am

 Wow, there was actually one person who thought that was too high of an expectation. Please explain...


rm_bidelite 57M/47F
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3/11/2011 7:59 pm

 there is nothing wrong with no sex on the first date.its up to you when your ready to give it up . if they dont like it its their loss.you do what feels rite for you.first date second date or whenever.


tripper89423 61M
Ask me for a photo

10/9/2011 10:28 pm

 Just because you want to fool around does not mean you have to. Yes most on Affairlook are here to get to adult fun but we will have a lot more fun if we get to know our partner first.


Clitlickerfan696 42M
6 posts
1/27/2019 7:57 pm

 I actually like to meet up with the person too. Haven't ever been the type to just mess around with someone. Has to be at least somewhat of a connection or else it will be boring, and regrettable.


romeoisfun 63M  
1 post
1/30/2019 11:52 am

 There is nothing wrong with meeting first, just be upfront about the first meeting being only about a drink or meal. Some call it shallow, but I also need to have a connection with someone first and a meal is the place for it.
Just remember that if it leads to a second that the expectation is most likely sex as either the appetizer or desert.


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