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Great Sex. When Is The Right Time  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10180 posts
9/16/2021 5:41 pm
Great Sex. When Is The Right Time




If you feel like you and your partner have fallen into a rut with your sex life, your timing might be to blame. The most popular time for love-making also happens to be the worst time.

A study in Frontiers in Psychology shows that the timing of men’s and women’s libidos are at polar opposites: Women feel the most desire in the evening, while men are most aroused in the morning. The study found that the average MF couple is most likely to have sex between 9 p.m. and midnight which is bedtime for many people. But experts say that pre-sleep sex isn’t necessarily ideal for a few reasons:
~Most people are exhausted and there’s a good chance they won’t have the energy for the most mind-blowing encounter.
~ Night-time sex can also overstimulate you.
~For others, sex is a tension reducer and relaxer and they have sex to help them fall asleep.

If you actually sleep together afterward, while you’re resting, your body is building up hormones, and you’ll wake up with more energy and perhaps creativity for satisfying sex.

Other factors include:
Testosterone Difference
Men do have a spike in testosterone between six and nine o’clock in the morning. They naturally like to capitalize on a good morning erection. Unfortunately, women have their lowest amount of daily testosterone in the morning and a minimal increase by evening.

Cleanliness
Many women have a thing about being clean before sex. So, for her, the thought of morning breath and a night’s worth of sweat and genital odour can squash any desire for wake-up sex. These issues may be the last thing on a man's mind as he feels the warm closeness of his partner’s relaxed body.

The Best Time
According to hormone expert Alisa Vitti, the best time for a man and woman to have sex is 3 pm. Which may require some organization, given that most of us are at work around that time.

Alisa explained to the Daily Mail that a bit of afternoon delight works best for men and women, as in the afternoon women feel at their most alert and energetic, thanks to increased levels of cortisol. Men reach their peak levels of estrogen at the time, which makes them more emotionally present during sex.

So, 3 pm is the ideal time for the maximum mutual enjoyment of heterosexual sex.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/16/2021 5:45 pm

[mage]

What timing works for you? Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner's timing?


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/16/2021 6:19 pm

Next time he asks, 3:00 pm it will be 💁‍♀️


harbor112 64M
1567 posts
9/16/2021 6:35 pm

Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/16/2021 6:38 pm

I don't know where THEY get those stats for men. A man is at his most virile after a hot shower and a hearty breakfast.

Anyway, I'm an evening person, so there's no conflict; in fact, I'd enjoy it more. Then again, sex at any time is fun if you're both into it.


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
9/16/2021 6:44 pm

oh yeah! I can see 3 in the afternoon being a good time.

When I was married she would prefer se as we went to bed, and I would prefer in the morning.
Sometimes, I would help her orgasm before sleep and she would help me orgasm in the morning.


Sensuallover814 42M  
11 posts
9/16/2021 7:17 pm

Im almost always ready but the finding are so true. The best sex definitely cums... In the early afternoon. Energy... to do all that i want to do. Drive... to keep going all the night through. I like it with the lights on so i can enjoy what i see . In the light of day my hunger comes naturally. After work im all charged up muscles ready to put in work. Im not cranky from being tired or acting like a jerk. Im hungry for some lovin. Good pleasures and good vibes. Afternoons are wonderful to cum and take a ride. Deep throbbing pleasure from a strong erection too. Afternoons are wonderful to do just what we do.


Luke200043 24M
4 posts
9/16/2021 7:31 pm

night time for me is my favourite time for sex


scc1965 58M

9/16/2021 7:45 pm

I am always thinking about sex on my way home from work and that is around 4 pm....It was always hot when I had afternoon rendezvous....


Knight_Skye29 68M
161 posts
9/16/2021 10:02 pm

been so long I don't remember


jc_powerman 63M
254 posts
9/16/2021 10:52 pm

I generally find mid and late morning works for me and many of the ladies I know but early to late afternoon works for others.


exsquid46 64M
640 posts
9/16/2021 11:41 pm

Ms. sexyldy1000,
"1.What timing works for you?
2.Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner's timing?"

1. If I had a partner, any time that they wanted sex would be the right time , if I was physically with them.

2. Being out of sync with my last partner was very common. So common that it lead to having a sexless marriage. Her libido crashed after the birth of our youngest.

Finding a woman that has a sex drive is a rarity in my area, and if they do have a sex drive, they are chasing way younger men.


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
9/17/2021 1:10 am

I am amazed at the studies people get funding for, although afternoon delights might be the best time for sex any time is good and I think it depends on two things, how horny you both are and how much you feel for each other.


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
9/17/2021 2:24 am

Like the study, I find that I'm more sexually inclined in the mornings. Then again I'm a man and any time of day a female partner is willing, well...

Have a good one!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/17/2021 3:34 am

My wife is usually having her afternoon nap at 3pm. Perhaps I should wake her up. Maybe not!


G000dbuddy 36M
1676 posts
9/17/2021 3:38 am

Funny post

goodbuddy781


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
9/17/2021 4:44 am

    Quoting harbor112:
    Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.
I have to fully agree with this one !!! I had occasionally initiated sex with the wife in the middle of the night and she too had done the same !!! For Me, it may had been being awakened by a breast that had, unbeknownst to her,wound up right against my face, I would awaken and begin sucking on a nipple, she would moan, I would realize she's awake and it would continue on from there !! Fall or Winter, I would awaken too her snuggling closer, likely for warmth, I guess, and would initiate sex by rubbing her crotch !! She had awakened me by stroking her hand on my leg or cock and continue from there or other unknown reason on her part too initiate middle of the night sex !!!


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/17/2021 5:35 am

I've found that if you do it spooning-style in the morning, rancid breath isn't as noticeable.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/17/2021 10:57 am

This was an interesting read, and I did learn something new from this study. Although the three pm sex time was a bit of a surprise. But I enjoy it any time of the day, but there is also one thing this study didn't mention is that some people as they get older, just aren't as interested in sex like they used to be.

I hope you enjoy a great Friday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


p1947q 77M  
140 posts
9/17/2021 12:26 pm

Spontaneity is best regardless of where or when. Personally, I have found that men’s and women’s libido is pretty much in sync morning, noon, night, during courtship.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:14 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Next time he asks, 3:00 pm it will be 💁‍♀️
Sounds like a great plan


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:15 pm

    Quoting harbor112:
    Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.
I think you are right!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:22 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I don't know where THEY get those stats for men. A man is at his most virile after a hot shower and a hearty breakfast.

    Anyway, I'm an evening person, so there's no conflict; in fact, I'd enjoy it more. Then again, sex at any time is fun if you're both into it.
What's great about studies is that they can create dialogue when others may not agree with the findings. Timing really is everything, isn't it?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:23 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    oh yeah! I can see 3 in the afternoon being a good time.

    When I was married she would prefer se as we went to bed, and I would prefer in the morning.
    Sometimes, I would help her orgasm before sleep and she would help me orgasm in the morning.
Finding ways to accommodate each other's preferences sounds like the right mix.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:25 pm

    Quoting Sensuallover814:
    Im almost always ready but the finding are so true. The best sex definitely cums... In the early afternoon. Energy... to do all that i want to do. Drive... to keep going all the night through. I like it with the lights on so i can enjoy what i see . In the light of day my hunger comes naturally. After work im all charged up muscles ready to put in work. Im not cranky from being tired or acting like a jerk. Im hungry for some lovin. Good pleasures and good vibes. Afternoons are wonderful to cum and take a ride. Deep throbbing pleasure from a strong erection too. Afternoons are wonderful to do just what we do.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective on why some "afternoon delight" works well for you


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/17/2021 5:25 pm

    Quoting Luke200043:
    night time for me is my favourite time for sex
It's a popular time for many


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