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You Overwhelm Me With Too Much Information
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You Overwhelm Me With Too Much Information You overwhelm me with too much information. Sometimes, when I sent a message to a guy that I hotlisted and spanked, I get overwhelmed with their first response. Some men immediately send and attach their full profile, without even saying 'Hi, Hello..." or without even introducing/saying their names. It is a big turn-off for me. And yet, these men mention that they can "carry" a conversation, or that they're a "good conversationalist"...?! (EVIL, SARCASTIC LAUGH) I did send some men this message: "Hi, I am Nikki. What is your name?" And I am not in the habit of being lazy to talk to by attaching my full Xmatch profile. The first time I meet someone, whether in person or online, I just keep it simple. I do not like to be overwhelmed by TMI. I want to converse with you, and learn more interesting things about you along the way, or, as we become regular FBs, I discover more dark, erotic things about you! Why can't some men give me a simple intro or, just a simple 'Hi, Hello...'? Is that how you conduct yourself in public and in private? You need to brush-up your social skills. |
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(Hi, I'm J, Nice to hear from you!) I think for many men, there's tendency to want to present something, anything that separates us out in what seems to be a severely skewed sex ratio environment. The great number of messages sent to the far, far smaller number of replies can compel one to send a whole lot more information in hopes that some small morsel entices a reply. Of course, this is more an issue when blindly mailing a new contact. In the situation where one is responding to a note from someone else, a more personal reply, more coversational, seems more appropriate, though I suspect with many, habits are just hard to break.
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(Hi, I'm J, Nice to hear from you!) I think for many men, there's tendency to want to present something, anything that separates us out in what seems to be a severely skewed sex ratio environment. The great number of messages sent to the far, far smaller number of replies can compel one to send a whole lot more information in hopes that some small morsel entices a reply. Of course, this is more an issue when blindly mailing a new contact. In the situation where one is responding to a note from someone else, a more personal reply, more coversational, seems more appropriate, though I suspect with many, habits are just hard to break.  By the way, I am Nikki. What is your name? So you're looking for the ultimate mismatch? (Evil Laugh)
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2/28/2011 3:13 pm |
I think Jbaye is absolutely correct. men on here are keenly aware they out number the women so I think they try to cram so much in the first email in the hope something sticks.
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I think Jbaye is absolutely correct. men on here are keenly aware they out number the women so I think they try to cram so much in the first email in the hope something sticks. I read your blogs and I got stung with the most recent blog that you posted. And yes, I made a comment.
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3/2/2011 6:00 pm |
Thanks for your response! I read your blogs and I got stung with the most recent blog that you posted. And yes, I made a comment.
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Stung? How so? 
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Hola mi amor ....yes its true it seems a lot of men have lost their "social skills" ,I personally blame the internet for the lack of human inter-action .I also agree with you .... why "pour" yourself out to a person on your initial meeting ? What would you have to talk about later ?
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Non-members are known to have limited access to profiles. Its just possible these men are simply conscientious about limited access. If emails qualify "tell me a little about yourself", it's simply poor attention to detail. The signs are there for those open to interpretation. ...thinking outside the box often results in a happy box...
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