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Not really being part of a group....No sex in this  

windsjohn 73M  
67 posts
8/3/2014 12:39 am
Not really being part of a group....No sex in this


I have older<b> teenagers. </font></b>They had a big day today. My had her last high school Summer Rec swim championship meet. My his next to last. She has aged out. Him next year. They did well.
They have a few friends on the Summer swim team, but in the 16 years we have belonged, I always thought of us as a family as outsiders. I don't mind that. I was raised that way. Hanging out with the in crowd but being more of a hanger-on and not really part of the "Group" I enjoyed it all my life. Maybe that's why I enjoyed my work as a stagehand and technician back stage. Being part of the action but not in the center of it.
The<b> teenagers </font></b>had a scavenger hunt and end of year party tonight. Alcohol and staying out all night if they wanted to in one of the team mates house with parental supervision. Car keys were confiscated. My were home by midnight.
I am proud of them. They are unhappy that they are not necessarily part of the in crowd. But I am glad they are nice enough that they tried and knew that they really don't want to be.

I wonder if many if not most of us in here consider ourselves as being part of the in crowd.

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