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Confessions of screening men  

Couplenextdoor02 51F  
41 posts
3/16/2013 3:14 pm
Confessions of screening men


Let's face it, men outnumbered REAL women on Affairlook something like 1,000:1.
Now having been on this site for a few years, we have had a lot of male propositions for Mrs. Couple. No problem that is half of the reason we are on here, right?
Now, if you are fucking around on your other half we can completely understand why no face pic will ever be forthcoming....we would rather not burn up time and no sense in either party pursuing any further. Won't happen without a face pic. The first email, we understand. Why send a face pic if the introductory email doesn't get returned. We get it. But no face picture by the second or third email is a waste of time.
That aside here is where it gets tricky. Men like to send pics of other men as themselves. So now we ask for two pictures, taken at different times. One picture verifies the other. Even better is a picture with the guy holding up a sign with writing specific to our request. Hate to go to such lengths but screening required this approach.
Best example....before we instituted these controls, we agree to meet a fit guy as a possible playmate at the arranged place and time. He walks up, probably about 10 years younger, wearing a Sesame Street tshirt and all ready to play. Didn't happen, and a total waste of everyone time.
So if you are a single guy....be prepared to go thru some paces. Fool us once shame on you, fool us twice..... (won't happen).

Couplenextdoor02 51F  
30 posts
3/16/2013 4:31 pm

Probably an exaggeration (1000:1). But I would put it at least 250:1. There are quite a few female profiles that are at best, suspect. Perhaps men posing as women. Let's face it, most women don't go around saying they want to get fucked senseless and then put their face in the profile. Just being realistic. Thanks Antique Pearl.


Fervent7 55M
457 posts
3/19/2013 10:57 pm

You stick to whatever process and requirements makes you comfortable with what you're doing. Nothing's worth giving that up, and patience will get you past any amount of it, anyway.

And, yes, the male portion of the population here is quite... drowning...


Couplenextdoor02 51F  
30 posts
3/23/2013 7:12 am

Yes Fervent, our approach works. We are still having fun. Tried a few other sites along the way, and honestly nothing so far beats Affairlook.


rm_thickscott2 54M
83 posts
6/19/2013 2:44 pm

Well couple I have been here for a while as well and found that there are a lot more men on this sight than one thinks I am a str8 male and have had many propositions from males. I have to decline because I am only here for the ladies and if a couple want to play with a str8 male I'm down! So if your interested drop me a line and lets chat!!


tdiza 46M
6 posts
7/29/2014 6:25 pm

I realize this is an older post, but very informative from the other side of things. I usually send a face pic on the reply email, and sometimes and intro one, if I'm really interested in meeting someone that I think is real. Again, good read, thx.


Fervent7 55M
457 posts
12/15/2014 12:37 am

LOL. Sorry. Just happened to run across this again and had to laugh at Sesame Street Guy. Not getting the cookie he was hoping for...

It is also rather unusual to find people who've settled on pretty smart and reasonable validation processes. Good stuff.

Carry on.


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