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So you think I look like a DBag XD  

Renz076 47M
7 posts
4/25/2015 11:55 am
So you think I look like a DBag XD

Have you even been in a situation where women might have a misconceived notion of who you really are based on your looks? Welp I have lol. Its actually very hard work to make a women dismiss those notions that they might get of me at first glance. In short, usually after a women meets and get to know me there formed concept that they had about me is destroyed. I've been told, "OMG I thought you were a cocky, arrogant, I bag 46735676 women, get whoever I want, asshole Dbag. You're just the sweetest guy ever!!!! A big teddy bear XD." Just goes to show that you can't judge a book by its cover. It's usually those initial first impressions mixed with a bit of shyness, yes I'm actually shy until I get to know you lol, that kill it for me lol. But what can I do. God made me this way. Though I might look like a arrogant, cocky player, dbag asshole. I'm really just a silly,funny, sweet, and respectful teddy bear in disguise XD

nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
4/25/2015 12:07 pm

 welcome to our world we get that all the time judgements based on looks or being on a site like this...while i am very friendly i am also aloof til i get a feel for someone..it is what it is
je ne regrette rien


Renz076 47M
6 posts
4/26/2015 1:35 pm

 nd2hvfun I think everyone has a feeling out process that they put new people thru, but in some cases I have a duel process placed on me lol. And thats while i'm out in public i.e. bar or club that i'm either Djing at or just out with friends. I try to follow some of my female friends advice of smiling more often lol. My female friends, ten different women to be exact, all shared the some misconceptions about me until they actually got to know me better. Now they prefer me to go out or be round them most of the time. As one friend put it, I feel more comfortable, and safe around you when I'm out clubbing or bar hopping.


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