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Blogs > stallion4earth > You, me and May be others

A question to all women on AFF  

stallion4earth 38M  
37 posts
7/8/2011 7:07 pm
A question to all women on AFF
A Perspective

I am sure this question is raised countable times by many still I would like to ask it again for women. I don’t know what it likes to be a woman on Affairlook but I can only guess. I presume Women get lot of mails every day and it is almost impossible for them to answer each and every one. I would like to think that every woman have some criteria in their mind according to which they reply. One of my presumption says that one or two liner mails are almost side lined by them unless they have some interesting pictures with it, sounds logical to me.

I am taking case where a man sends a mail after reading the profile carefully, explaining the intention of the man. Most commonly found that this kind of mail remain unanswered. One would argue that mostly these cases occurred due to lots of fake profiles of women and I tend to agree. But I believe it happens quite often with profiles which are genuine (I have been long enough on Affairlook to know about real and fakes).

My question to all the women on Affairlook is, do guys deserve an answer from you even if you are not interested? Does typing two latter word such as NO going to take lot of time? Or denying a friend request is going to take all your time on Affairlook.
vikram_the_bull 40M
322 posts
7/11/2011 9:25 am
    Quoting stallion4earth:
    Thanks for replying on this issue.

    i suppose this is in interest of all. My self was rejected over mail some times or my friend request declined some times but i never send a mail complaining and whining about it. everybody do have their own preferences so be it.

    After reading the responses , i urge from males to be respectful towards better halves. in simple words, don't be a pig .
dude,incase you are not aware,do not post pics on the comments section of blogs.they wont show up for non standard memebers
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vikram

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stallion4earth 38M  
105 posts
7/9/2011 2:03 am

 Thanks for replying on this issue.

i suppose this is in interest of all. My self was rejected over mail some times or my friend request declined some times but i never send a mail complaining and whining about it. everybody do have their own preferences so be it.

After reading the responses , i urge from males to be respectful towards better halves. in simple words, don't be a pig .


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
7/8/2011 8:42 pm

 Typing a two letter "no" would probably result in a barrage of nasty hate-mail calling you a fat bitch whore (or whatever the fellow might come up with).

Nice, polite, clever, well-written emails deserve a response.

But the vast majority of email that women get on here is "wanna fuck tonight?" or completely rude, nasty garbage that is just best left ignored if you want to maintain your sanity and not develop an absolute hatred of the opposite sex.

Ditto, if like BTDT above said ... if the email or profile has obviously absolutely ignored what I have written in my profile, I feel justified in ignoring the email. Example: my profile is clear that I want to meet local men only, I'm not interested in cyber or chat ... so if I get email from men in another state or another country, asking if I want to meet or chat. I just delete it.


stallion4earth replies on 7/9/2011 12:38 am:
you are absolutely right. i do share same concerns with you that's why i said a mail is written by man after reading the profile. my first rule is to be honest to your self.

i am always against two liners because even if this is sex site but compatibility and comfort level has great value when it comes to sharing a bed. I have some idea about the desperateness of men here and they would would write anything that come to their mind after being rejected. every body is not like that. if some body is taking time to write a nice mail it means he is really interested and deserve a reply.

whimsicalflings 56M

7/8/2011 7:52 pm

 Imagine if Affairlook sent out PDF manuals of "best practices" to its new members, that would be something to read!

I'm asking the same questions at whimsicalflings ....hoping the ladies are listening.
-WF


stallion4earth replies on 7/9/2011 1:24 am:
i like your idea . i will post this to official blog of Affairlook about sending a PDF attachment with welcome mail.

btdt2009 57F  
1466 posts
7/8/2011 7:45 pm

 My question to all the women on Affairlook is, do guys deserve an answer from you even if you are not interested?

I believe they do. The only exception to the rule is if you specifically say you aren't interested in xxxx and they email you anyhow. For example, I specifically say I'm not interested in married men. If one of them chooses to ignore that, then I do not feel I should have to reply to them and say no.


stallion4earth replies on 7/9/2011 1:31 am:
thanks for the reply. you are dead right about what you say. they rightfully deserved to be ignored. i was just trying to spread awareness among indian women, if any body reading. that's the most i can do , write a blog. i hope women read this and men gets the treatment which they deserve.

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