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BEING BICURIOUS
BEING BICURIOUS When looking for other couples to meet up for sex or to invite to sex parties, I used to closely read their profiles. It was common for the man or the woman, or both, to describe themselves as bicurious. I often wondered what this term meant. I understood that someone could be curious about having sex with someone of the same sex, whether gay or lesbian sex. I was and still am curious. But the label seemed to mean much more than idle curiousity. Bicurious, at least to me, suggests that the person is tempted to try a same-sex experience; being bicurious without any interest in having such an experience is pretty meaningless. But once someone has had sex with someone of the same sex and enjoyed the same-sex experience, then, surely they are no longer bicurious but bisexual. Being bicurious is surely a transient description of sexual orientation until such curiousity has been satisfied or not. Bicurious is temporary. Despite this, bicurious remains a common description of the sexual orientation of many couples on this site. Perhaps they are unsure whether they enjoyed the same-sex experience but are still curious to give it another whirl. Perhaps the conditions that they want their same-sex experience to take place are so idealised that they are impossible to be met in the real world. Or perhaps they did not get round to updating their profile. However, I think there may be other reasons why couples describe themselves as bicurious. I think many men in a couple relationship are more likely to describe themselves as bicurious rather than bisexual because they do not want to scare off other men. Also, given men often write the profile of the couple, I think many men are likely to describe their female partner as bicurious because they like the idea of watching their partner getting it on with another woman. For these reasons, when I saw a profile of a bicurious couple, I used to assume that the man was bisexual and the woman was straight. How would you describe your sexuality? What does bicurious mean to you? Are you bicurious? Sexuality is fluid, making it difficult to categorise and problems always arise at the margins of categories. But, having said that, I am straight and curious but without being bicurious; I am not interested in having sex with another man. Apart from a few awkward fumblings after lights-out at boarding school, I have not experienced sex with a man. At last, I have come out as heterosexual! However, having said that, there were a couple of occasions when, in the heat of the moment, sex with a woman did involve another man. The first occasion when I allowed a man to caress my balls as I was fucking his wife; it seemed rude to turn down his request! The other occasion was when I cupped the balls of another man as he was fucking my partner; I wanted him to cum as I do like sloppy seconds! Perhaps I am momentarily bisexual! |
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I think it’s really unfair that the pressure is always on non-straight people to come out!
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I'm as straight as an arrow! -------->
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Very interesting and intriguing blog about being bisexually curious or just being bisexual. How would you describe your sexuality? I am a bisexual woman What does bicurious mean to you? To me it means your curious about being with a partner of the same sex. Are you bicurious? No I am bisexual and I enjoy it. Seems like you have enjoyed a few threesomes, and I hope you get to enjoy more if the opportunities present themselves. I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..
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Being bicurious only leads to better things if you are open to it!!
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How would you describe your sexuality? - I'm straight. I'm curious but not bi.
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To me, the bicurious label implies that the curiosity has not been met (for whatever reason) I had a same-sex encounter in my early 20s and that ended any curiosity I might have harbored. I am hetero to the bone. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I’m straight. (Really??) yes, I am. We indulge in bisexual fantasies. I have watched her make out with another woman. But she said that was all she would ever do. I enjoy trans, girl/girl and straight porn. It is interesting as to what people mean when they post about curiosities. Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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I was bi-curious... so I explored. Now I'm not bi-curious, I'm straight. I see a big difference in the genders when it comes to situational bisexuality... I hardly ever see a woman say something along the lines of "well I wasn't having any luck with the opposite gender so I figured what the hell, I'd try my own" or "a mouth is a mouth" but I see many male profiles that use that type of language.
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How would you describe your sexuality? Straight with women only What does bicurious mean to you? I enjoy watching for women. I have no other interest Are you bicurious? Only for women
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And then there is the term heteroflexible. Maybe that should be used to describe the guys Tickle mentioned. Me? I’d say I’m bisexual but only slightly so in terms of actual experience.
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If she invited me to watch, I would. 😶❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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How would I describe my sexuality? I'm straight What does Bicurious mean to me? It means an individual has entertained the idea but not yet explored enough to make a decision. Am I Bicurious? I am not. When I look at a beautiful woman, I think to myself, she's a beautiful woman. When I look at a handsome man, I think to myself, ooh la la! I wonder what he smells like?? I'd like to run my fingers through those chest hairs!! I'd like to get *him* alone in a dark alley for 10 minutes!!
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At one time I was curious. Since then I have figured it out and enjoy it.
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I have said I'm bicurious in the past. I have never had a full on sexual experience with a women. However I am not and don't see that I will ever be bisexual. I love the female form. I enjoy touching women. I have zero desire to go down on a woman.
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I'm as straight as an arrow! -------->
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Watching two women getting it on doesn't do much for me. Clearly I'm abnormal for a man!
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Very interesting and intriguing blog about being bisexually curious or just being bisexual. How would you describe your sexuality? I am a bisexual woman What does bicurious mean to you? To me it means your curious about being with a partner of the same sex. Are you bicurious? No I am bisexual and I enjoy it. Seems like you have enjoyed a few threesomes, and I hope you get to enjoy more if the opportunities present themselves. I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..
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Being bicurious only leads to better things if you are open to it!! Thanks for stopping by.
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How would you describe your sexuality? - I'm straight. I'm curious but not bi.
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To me, the bicurious label implies that the curiosity has not been met (for whatever reason) I had a same-sex encounter in my early 20s and that ended any curiosity I might have harbored. I am hetero to the bone. It's always good to know our sexuality.
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I’m straight. (Really??) yes, I am. We indulge in bisexual fantasies. I have watched her make out with another woman. But she said that was all she would ever do. I enjoy trans, girl/girl and straight porn. It is interesting as to what people mean when they post about curiosities.
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I was bi-curious... so I explored. Now I'm not bi-curious, I'm straight. I see a big difference in the genders when it comes to situational bisexuality... I hardly ever see a woman say something along the lines of "well I wasn't having any luck with the opposite gender so I figured what the hell, I'd try my own" or "a mouth is a mouth" but I see many male profiles that use that type of language.
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How would you describe your sexuality? Straight with women only What does bicurious mean to you? I enjoy watching for women. I have no other interest Are you bicurious? Only for women
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And then there is the term heteroflexible. Maybe that should be used to describe the guys Tickle mentioned. Me? I’d say I’m bisexual but only slightly so in terms of actual experience.
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If she invited me to watch, I would. 😶❗❗
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