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Creepy encounter  

lala_alldaylong 34F
535 posts
9/10/2009 6:45 pm
Creepy encounter


Some guy comes up to me in a coffee shop and says to me, “Girl, let me put my stuff inside you”. I’m guess he thought that I would find that line too irresistible to pass up but silly as it may sound, I opted not to allow myself to have his stuff inside me. He stared at me, in amazement that his line didn’t work. Hey, I give him credit that he has enough self-confidence to say something like that but what I would like to know has it ever actually worked. Besides the fact that it totally objectifies the woman, it’s kind of creepy. What stuff is he talking about specifically; his cock, his sperm, something else of which I’m not aware? Trust me, I am not a<b> prude </font></b>and while nothing has ever shocked me that line had me both scratching my head and looking over my shoulder. Am I being over sensitive? Maybe I have been away from NYC too long.

hardworkin2008 65M
1569 posts
10/18/2009 5:11 am

I just want to personally thank you for not letting him reproduce. Hopefully other women will have the same good sense.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
10/7/2009 4:30 am

    Quoting Theodora1982:
    I think some men might have a license to utter such a tacky line without causing offense, but there are only a few that possess the requisite physical charms. Even so, there is obviously a much more elegant way of articulating your sexual desires---which almost always must be preceded by a minimal amount of courting---and this guy articulated his in the crudest possible way. Did he seem mentally ill?
you must have heard some really crass attempts in you life too. i've heard others but this one just made my skin crawl. had to be a combination of the words, the look in his eyes, everything just didn't seem right.


Theodora1982 41F

10/6/2009 10:32 pm

I think some men might have a license to utter such a tacky line without causing offense, but there are only a few that possess the requisite physical charms. Even so, there is obviously a much more elegant way of articulating your sexual desires---which almost always must be preceded by a minimal amount of courting---and this guy articulated his in the crudest possible way. Did he seem mentally ill?


Grizly144 64M
216 posts
10/5/2009 8:53 pm

That lines right up there with, "Hey I know you, Your So in So from Affairlook".
What an Ass!


rm_05realman21 51M
5944 posts
9/26/2009 4:46 am

I have to apologize, that man is actually my alien friend Splurgeetiekietiekie, and all he wanted to do was to shake your hand, I have to teach you alien 101 so you would know next time lol



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wannalove24 41M

9/16/2009 11:04 am

I think that it was a simple ignorant comment aimed at getting a rise out of you. It is obvious that such methods are meant from nothing but offensive gestures. agree


dalfan40 64M

9/14/2009 3:39 pm

Hmmm, 6%, I doubt that line would work at all. And even if it did, consider the type of woman you are about to bed.Can you spell STD


rm_mtvernon914 39M

9/14/2009 11:16 am

I've had this experience too. A female friend who thought homosexuality was a joke heard I was bisexual even though I lean heavily straight (I don't let people know I'm bi mostly because these things ALWAYS happen when female friends find out about it) and tried to set me up with her most flaming friend (I am, of course, not interested in flaming men; I don't like women who act like this, so why would I like men?). He goes up to me at a party and says:

"Nice shirt. I wonder what creator it is. By the way, I give good head. Would you like to try it?"

That could've been creepy, but the look of seriousness on his face made me crack up laughing..."No, that's OK, I'm pretty sure I'm straight about now!"

"Are you sure? I can change that."

Me: "You already did in an unfavorable direction."

I'm laughing too hard at this point to just walk away. At one point I pull up my shirt because this person has no chance with me to show him the brand.

Him: "Eww, store brand, no, go away!"

I have fun making fun of the creeps.


rm_BillForeal 35M

9/13/2009 9:33 am

that sure is crazy... i would never do that..


nghtybtnce 55M
1 post
9/12/2009 9:37 pm

sorry to have offended you at the coffee shop but you heard me wrong.

What I said was ... let me put my stuff BESIDE you, I had some heavy books that were weighing me down

The look you gave me scared me away

and I am a baker of cupcakes too


stang87306 42M

9/12/2009 9:43 am

some ppl arent all that bright lol one thing to keep in mind .... there is nothing common about common sense . sorry to hear it got you wierded out so to speak .... on a side note how does it feel to be back in the city ?


rm_igoteight48 62M

9/12/2009 6:46 am

Well SweetHeart,I don't think that line has worked for anyone,and to include him,Unless he approached a prostitute.
That was a very rude remark even for New York.
Good luck in school sweetheart.Thanks for being so beautiful


singleman2014 33M

9/11/2009 6:31 pm

what a dumbass, is that what this world has come to


rm_SexyBuzz82 41M
33 posts
9/11/2009 6:22 pm

Wow. That's not only stupid, but tasteless and classless. I could see someone saying that on a communication on a site like this, where sex is the topic, but this guy doesn't know you at all and just thinks that's the way to pick up a girl?

I doubt that would ever work and if it did, it would only be with a very unattractive woman, who was as desperate as he is...or a prostitute.

You're not being oversensitive. That behavior is creepy and out of line in ANY city. I can see how that would be creepy. At least it was someplace reasonably public. I could see that being a lot more creepy if you were the only other person on a subway platform or something..

Just out of curiosity, what did you say back to him? I mean, that is totally grounds to bitch slap that bastard's ego and give him a really nasty insult back.

Also, what did this guy look like? For some reason as I picture this encounter, I'm imagining a fat 50 year old guy who smells like garbage and is missing a few teeth. That seems like the type who would pull this shit.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
9/11/2009 10:19 am

    Quoting OverAchiever82:
    You'd be surprised, but I'm sure he's used that line on many women and for every 50 women he uses it on, he might get two or three girls that say "yes".

    It's all about the numbers when you're using those lines!
I'm no mathmatician, but 3 out of 50 is 6%. That seems too good for a lame ass line like that. Funny thing is, he would have talked with him if he used any other line that didn't make my flesh crawl.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
9/11/2009 10:17 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks but how I look in my pictures is under a controlled environment. Let's just say when I'm running around and stop for a coffee, there's a good chance I may be a bit unkempt.


OverAchiever82 44M

9/11/2009 9:52 am

You'd be surprised, but I'm sure he's used that line on many women and for every 50 women he uses it on, he might get two or three girls that say "yes".

It's all about the numbers when you're using those lines!


tremor2008 53M

9/11/2009 6:21 am

The guy sounded clueless.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
9/11/2009 4:29 am

    Quoting sman2k.01:
    now i want to bump into you in line and say, "hey, i don't really feel like putting out any effort at all here, but i want some gratification, and you look like you have no self esteem or standards, so what do you say?" just to see if you'd laugh at hearing the exact same line from 2 different guys, just worded a little different
Its all in how you package it I guess.


sman2k.01 51M
3151 posts
9/10/2009 11:59 pm

now i want to bump into you in line and say, "hey, i don't really feel like putting out any effort at all here, but i want some gratification, and you look like you have no self esteem or standards, so what do you say?" just to see if you'd laugh at hearing the exact same line from 2 different guys, just worded a little different


vengeur 48M  
837 posts
9/10/2009 8:51 pm

Whatever happened to just simply saying "hello" to people? That's what I still would say.


mocetar7 54M
1940 posts
9/10/2009 7:17 pm

must've been his little head talking out loud...

the funny thing is, i wonder if he did even stop to consider if his words made any impact after he said them....

i would be shocked if he did get someone interested in him with this line... but then again, that kinda girl would deserve this kinda guy, dontcha think?

creepy indeed...


mywaynow67 57F
10 posts
9/10/2009 7:12 pm

Wiw, I can't believe you were able to turn down a great offer like that! lol I wonder if he's ever gotten any takers for that one...


celeritystyle 44M

9/10/2009 7:12 pm

Crikey, it makes you out to be some sort of bloody storage device.. Some people have guts, others have a lack of common sense that makes them say and do stupid things. The person who is responsible for the warning label on a Fan belt had a load of confidence and stupidity. You're a load better than that sweets. I think I'd approach and just say "hello luv, I know you'll not see me again but I just wanted to say that you're about the most beautiful lass i've ever seen.
Cheers" but that's just me.


gymjunkie67 37M

9/10/2009 7:12 pm

you know, they make some very powerful pepper sprays these days....just a suggestion


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