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It sounds like you two had a great time  I love the image of your huge family gathering. My family is quite small, and about the only "tradition" we have is playing Pooka.
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You're so luck. You have a big family, that seems to get along, and two very intriguing women. Both with their strengths. Why are you not with Kerry again? The distance and her upcoming divorce are obvious, but I can't remember the reason you two split. Seems like she is kind of controlling? If that was it, did she exhibit the same controlling ways this weekend? If she didn't, do you think it was because she knew this was just a relaxing holiday and vacation together? Inquiring minds, or maybe it is just me that wants to know...
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It sounds like you two had a great time I love the image of your huge family gathering. My family is quite small, and about the only "tradition" we have is playing Pooka.There is a fair bit of drama in the family, especially when that many people get together for a weekend every summer, but it's mostly all good. There are a lot of family obligations like weddings and funerals, that make being in a large family rather expensive and you have to be careful who you upset by turning down an invitation. So I actually kind of envy you having a cozy Pooka game.
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You're so luck. You have a big family, that seems to get along, and two very intriguing women. Both with their strengths. Why are you not with Kerry again? The distance and her upcoming divorce are obvious, but I can't remember the reason you two split. Seems like she is kind of controlling? If that was it, did she exhibit the same controlling ways this weekend? If she didn't, do you think it was because she knew this was just a relaxing holiday and vacation together? Inquiring minds, or maybe it is just me that wants to know... And the two women! Where do I even begin? First of all, long distance relationships totally suck, so yes that's an obvious one. Also she's very recently separated and since she's on the rebound she's a little crazy and emotional right now and she's not thinking straight. Why and how we split is even up for debate. I usually tell it that I was tired of her shit and dumped her, but the truth might be that she dumped me first. Either way, we got very angry at each other and did some hateful things, and the relationship didn't survive it. And by the time we started talking to each other again, she had moved on. Her heart has been locked away and well-guarded from me ever since. So I would be a fool to hold out any hope that she would love me. But we understand each other now, better than probably any other people I know. We're stuck with each other as friends, confidants, partners in crime, shoulders to cry on, and devils in the ear. I'll write a whole post about this sometime, in enough detail that you will know the back story. But in short, she has led a charmed life and had everything she ever wanted, including me. Anyway, oh yes, this weekend she was relaxed enough to show her controlling side in the subtle ways that she does (and a few obvious ways too). For example, having to drive most of the way, picking all the places to eat, telling me when I'm supposed to be hungry, controlling the music whether driving or not, criticizing the food I eat, even the gas I buy! She even tried to convince me today that we should have a baby together, even though it would ruin her divorce proceedings and turn her into a single mom with a father in another state. She thinks so much about what she wants in the here and now that she doesn't take account of the consequences. She just makes the plans and tries to get you to fall into them. Of course it wouldn't make sense for me to live in North Carolina, it would be better if I moved to Pittsburgh. See how the plans never involve a sacrifice on her part? So, there's a bit of a price to pay for all the wanton sex with her, there usually is. But I know her so well now that I see her motivations very plainly. I still love her for it, I'm just not convinced that it would be a good thing. But on the flip side, we can almost read each other's minds, she finally accepts me as myself, and she gets all my obscure references and vice-versa. Either way, I much prefer Katie and her guileless carpe diem approach to life. And the sex is better. Katie gives 200% in love and in bed, whatever it takes to please you. In contrast, Kerry tends to do what she needs to to get you to do what she wants.
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Decisions, decisions... Ha-ha. I get what you're saying about Kerry. Wanting to drive all the time, the radio, these are not BIG things, but over time, and coupled with a lot of other things not mentioned here, I'm sure, would get tiresome over time. Not making sacrifices on her part made me think of my wife. On the surface she didn't, but probably she did. Depends on your perspective sometimes, for everybody and everything. I know some women who read about the 200% in bed thing will think that you need more for a relationship than sex. But I remember the other ways you two get close and find out what makes each other happy out of the bedroom too. So ladies, read old posts about Katie before you pounce... Just sticking up for another guy! 
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