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Why do men who you respectfully turn away act like ASSHOLES!!
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Why do men who you respectfully turn away act like ASSHOLES!! Replied steve_722 37 year old Man Windsor mill, Maryland i should ahve said this along time ago Apr 8, 2009 10:07 PM EDT f___ you... **************************************************************** This is the response I got for not wanting to meet someone who had approach me incorrectly and I had advised I would not be interested in what he was offering me. Now was this type of CHILDISH BEHAVIOR NEEDED!!! I mean really? A no from me is just one no. I guess my no CRUSHED HIM SO BADLY he felt the need to lash out some type of immature with no home training! It is men like this that really make this site not worth being on. But I refuse to let assholes like Steve_722 allow my mind to think that real genuine people are not on this site because I have met and spent time with them! What do you think?? |
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I'll never understand those types of people. I too get strange and unwelcomed responses to simple questions, as well as harsh language and searing contempt from many... I guess the average human is just small minded and sadly petty... As for your statement about not letting the assholes ruin things...? Too damn true! I met my last ex here, and we had a meaningful and deep relationship that lasted over a year... Before she decided 'we wern't right for each other, so let's just be friends... OK?' Oh well, we both may come to regret that decision, but hindsight is 20/20, eh?
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1 post 4/8/2009 8:04 pm |
not all men are like that at all. there is someone out there for everyone so he just needs to find that person no need to be immature because someone turns you down. Just move on I wonder why women never act like that when they get turned down. I sure hope you overlook this person and not let him get to you. Heck you turned me down LOL but its all good. We were just not meant to be.
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1 post 4/8/2009 10:09 pm |
forget it, don't pay him no mine
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I don't know why people act like that or play the games they play on here.You should be able to take no for an answer.If someone is not what your looking it's better to say so then to lead them on.GROW UP GROWN FOLK....
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4/9/2009 10:05 am |
some guys just don't get it when women mean no not interested or I don't want to see your cock picks, or the one liners that only a caveman can say they need to get over them selfs...
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Some men and women the same are unable to take rejection. There are psychological reasons and it is often found that a woman may take it harder and become more emotional.I have had my share of rejection and have found it amusing in some instances while others I found it to be a bit immature in how it was presented. All in all, everyone has issues and some people have theirs in the rejection arena. Here is an article that was well written that I thought was an interesting read on your subject. http://Affairlook.com=pto-20070622-000001&page=1 Aside from that, enjoy the site, keep it moving and keep it as real as you have.. hell if I can take your rejections anyone should  NoStrings!
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some like the challenge of the chase and r dumb enough not to let go
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4/25/2009 7:28 pm |
Your profile is very clear on what you're looking for. It's his problem if he could not accept that you were not interested. Forget him and move on!
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4/27/2009 2:42 pm |
Well,sweetheart,a lot of men can't stand rejection,so when a women is not interested in him he lashes out at her to try to dill with the pain that he's not use to.Believe or not over half the men in the world can't stand rejection but some deal with it better than others,the one that lashes out in a negative way have deep rooted issues from there child hood.So don't let that worry you he's got the issues that he needs to deal with and hopefully get help for.
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some guys are still boys huh////
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I never understood why people act that way. I always Thanked someone for rejecting my advances or contact. And I always was polite in response. My running total Ladies Please I need some help Want a Free Credit report No Scams Or you can come and say hello to me at Private Messages Here is a post that is close to my heart. Mental Health Issues
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7/8/2009 7:59 pm |
i think a simple no is enough to crush some immature boys who call themselves men. Also where most men mess up is when they dont read the profile completely. I've been turned down before on this site many of times, but i never needed to respond them in a negative way becasue they didnt respond back to me in a negative manner. Dame
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7/9/2009 2:59 am |
this is a great topic....i cant count the number of times i've politely turned someone down and in return was cursed out and it just blew my mind. I thought we were all adults on this site apparently that is giving some ppl credit where credit is not due. Age apparently does not consitute being grown up .......so seriously ppl if you get a response that you dont like or agree with ....there are sooo many other ppl on this site just keep it moving it is not that serious ready and waiting hotnsexytimes2
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No strong female presents in their life, e.g. moms or grandmas. A man that's respect his momma will not disrespt you! It is just my opinion.
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1 post 11/14/2009 10:09 pm |
see, alot of dudes just dont understand rejection because they dont get it.. for every ending brings a new begining...moreover, some guys go into their low self because they believe the rejection is about them,when in fact it is the woman..we all want who we want, there is no real fault... he just isnt want she wants..
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Men do not - boys do!
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hey there, u cant have a sex site without a few assholes. in regards to how to treat u and ur friend, it would be with the respect we all should give, the apreciation id feel for being chosen and be a good bud with or withouta hardon.
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fuck him....Is it still to late...
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Fuck them men that do that.....IS it to late?
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Lotz-of-me is correct.... Many men here do not take NO for an answer...no matter how nicely it's stated. It is not cool and not fair to women on the site to have to got beyond a simple "no" to express that they are not interested... And it's not just a small handful who rebel. Any number of excuses can be used to explain it away, but it stands to remain that women are rejected as well as men and both need to learn how to accept an unfavorable response. It's like grade school when you can't accept that you got a "C" when you thought you should have gotten an "A". I believe that anyone who violates someone else's choice and desires in that manner should be removed by the site's administrator. I too have been called nasty names and queried as to the Why's of it...and its not fair. Take your no and keep it moving...someone else does not think you are all that. Get over it and move on...I know I do!
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First and foremost men are very controlling and second most men are sexually misfits and immature.... Childish immature Horndogs!
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It takes a very mature man to have, and to be accepted by two women as wives to that man, it is a balancing act on a whole different level. It is not slavery, it is not having someone over a barrel, it is not sexual dominance, in most cases it is the women , not the man who chooses the man or should i say accepts the man into their already existing world of passion, love, family, co-operation of their governing our the daily affairs . Women make men better in all we do, in most cases the women are the pivotal deciding decision planers, makers, voices of the men in the forefront, in the back ground. In short in mostly all walk of this life a woman or women make the man look good in all he does , sex, dance, business, community affairs.
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