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We need expert advice  

XDog69 54M
11 posts
4/8/2009 4:34 pm
We need expert advice


I am an ass man. I just love a bubblely and bouncy woman's ass. But I am always denied access to that back door.
Women claim its too big, and that they are affarid it will hurt.
I need avice on how to introduce a woman to anal sex... and I also need to create a network of anal sex craving people (women, men,couples)

So if you like anal sex... welcom to my blog

rm_goddess1946 113F
13513 posts
4/8/2009 5:59 pm

Bottom line (no pun intended) ...
If that is what you are hearing in the midst of actual
lovemaking, you need to work on how you are approaching
all doors...mental, emotional and physical. You need to
understand that size does matter regardless of where you
are intending to be with your physical body and how you
get there matters also.

You better understand the joys of lube and the emotions that
come with allowing you to enter an area that wasn't exactly
created for that purpose. Bottom line. It can hurt. If it does
...you need to learn that it doesn't have to. This is YOUR job
to make sure that it doesn't.

Liking and craving are two different things and everything has
it's perfect time...you just have to know what you are doing...
especially if you are bigger than the average toy used to prepare
the anal area for play. Becoming a skilled and tender lover has nothing to do with the fact that you enjoy anal or interracial play
.........it's all just part of the big picture.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


wost05 59M/53F

4/8/2009 6:43 pm

If you are in to anal sex and would like to introduce your partner to it, you should listen to what she is telling you in other areas of sex and build a trust so she believes you are there for her pleasure as well. I don't know about most other gals, but I have to be VERY aroused for anal. A nice way to get into the mood may be to play in that area by licking while doing oral, massaging the opening and teasing with just the tip of your finger...enough to tease and make her want more, but not enough to hurt or she'll think of how much it will hurt when the big fella comes knocking on that door. eep her relaxed and go slow and remember....LUBE, LUBE AND MORE LUBE IS NEVER TOO MUCH!!!! Hope this helped and good luck.



Live...Love...Laugh! {=}


rm_shenna4567 36F

4/8/2009 8:04 pm

LUBE, LUBE AND MORE LUBE IS NEVER TOO MUCH!!!!


2FUNPLAY1 68M/63F

4/8/2009 9:35 pm

YES!!! LUBE is definitely the most important key to anal sex! And so you can slide in a little easier...tell her to push as you are going in slowly...take it slow as you are entering. sounds crazy to push, but trust me!!! It works!!!!!!!! I really liked what the Goddess said in her comment! You are so right on the money!! mental, emotional and physical!! And it takes a whole lot of trust.


casseycase 38F

4/8/2009 10:50 pm

nice


Uwanthis4Fun 45M

4/9/2009 12:57 am

You gotta find a woman who just likes it! But it does take patience!


maryann99999b 45F

4/9/2009 1:57 am


mattsguinness74 49M  
5 posts
4/9/2009 9:11 am

I love the idea of creating a network for those who enjoy it. As everyone has pointed out, it's not for everyone. There are even some men who don't want give it, thinking it's taboo. Thank you for the idea of creating a local network for fans of the backdoor, I'm going to start that today!


rm_bbw7608 47F
152 posts
4/9/2009 10:00 am

Ok...maybe I'm different. Actually I know I'm different

I have had a guy as big around as you...or probably pretty close... in my ass. I didn't use lube at all. I have had a guy as long as you in my ass...or probably pretty close. I didn't use lube there either.

Here is what I would suggest.
1) Use a condom - it tends to slide in easier.
2) For most girls, use lube.
3) Take it slow on entry...bit in...out...bit in...out...more in..almost out...more in...almost out...continue... If you feel tough resistance, stop and pull out a bit before trying to go deeper. The more you push with resistance, the more tearing is likely to occur.
4) Try a girl with LOTS of anal experience as your ass gets used to being stretched.

See...now that's probably why I rarely need lube. My ass expands like you wouldn't believe due to all the anal I've done. ) Why have I done so much btw? Cuz it's freaking amazing! Feels like heaven.


XDog69 54M

4/21/2009 6:40 am

I am happy to see all the replies I received.
And from it all a few elements seems to come out the most... Lots of Lub, Help her relaxe, go slowly.

The receipe sounds easy enough, but I guess only practice will help me master the technique.
So on to the next step. who amongst you ladies will volonteer to have me practice what i have just learned here


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