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Wake up and smell the pheromones
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Wake up and smell the pheromones  As I've said, over and over again, in regards to the way women and men look at sex: Women need a reason men just need a place. Everybody I tell that to laughs and nods BUT I'm never quite sure if they understand JUST how true that statement really is.. GT and I were talking earlier and the topic of etiquette came up which then in turn got me to thinking about a whole LOT of stuff in this 'vertical' and well, me being me... viola a perfect opportunity to blog... THANKS GT!!!! You 'da woman! Now guys usually fall into a couple of different 'camps' in regard to etiquette: A LOT of guys here on Affairlook either have no clue OR they could care less. ALL of which is still governed by my opening statement: men just need a place We guys are fickle beasts but there ARE a couple of things that you can count on from us: Men NEED affirmation: Period, end of story. Whether a guy gets his affirmation from inside OR from an external source goes a LONG way in telling you all you really need to know about him. Unless of course you WANT to be his mother, I'd try and find a guy who is capable of self affirmation OR at least he has some way of full filling that overriding need that DOESN'T necessarily involve you picking up his socks and underwear OR making decisions for him. Men have EGOs Yep it's true, we men DO in fact have EGOs. I KNOW this comes as a shock to all you ladies out here  Obviously our EGOs are tied directly to our need for affirmation I'm sure you gals have seen guys, right here on Affairlook even, who's EGOs supersede all else. Typically in those cases, you're looking at a guy who is NOT getting the right kind of affirmation in the right way eh? LOL This EGO is NOT to be confused with the 'other' EGO btw! (Did you even KNOW there was another EGO? LOL ) From a previous post: "Of course we(men) also can fall prey to what I call BCE (Belly Corona Effect) which, when coupled with EGO (Enlarged Gonadal Observation) causes us to add anywhere from 1-3" to our own peckers whenever we look down." but this is a different discussion entirely. Guys will almost ALWAYS take the easiest way possible to get their dicks into whatever hole(s)you might offer/have BUT along with that comes a guys need for affirmation.. For a LOT of guys, affirmation is NOT garnered by entering into a good, loving relationship with a women but by simply having the 'conquest' under their belts or a nice looking girl-toy on their arm who they can parade in front of all of their friends. As you know, a great many men see women as only objects, a viewpoint that is strengthened and reaffirmed by the internet, sites LIKE Affairlook, TV, music, movies, advertisements etc on a minute by minute basis. And herein we find the biggest difference between men and women and the reason you gals always have such a hard time understanding us. As a woman, you NEED that reason I mentioned above. You're built for it, genetically/physically, emotionally and historically. I've said this before and I'll say it again, women make HORRIBLE swingers. It's very hard to find a truly 'Poly' woman. I know there are exceptions, G-d love ya, but I'm really taking generalities here. Girls, you KNOW that you NEED to have some kind of emotional bond with a guy before you'll have sex with him. Sure, physical attraction is nice but at the end of the day, I'm pretty sure that you would give up some of that physical attraction in order to have a REAL relationship with a good, mature, caring, intelligent man. Guys don't look at it that way. We just need a place. Being bisexual gives me somewhat of a unique view into the dynamics between men and sex. GT is ALWAYS so surprised when I meet up with a guy. There's none of the typical 'wooing', romance, caring, love and emotions that you women truly do need and enjoy. Foreplay is virtually non-existent. Sex between us guys is basically of the drop your pants and lets get at it variety. We just need a PLACE. Ok, back to the etiquette thing, I'm a firm believer that good etiquette shows good 'breading'. It means that your parents and family did a good job in raising you and more to the point, instilling in you a certain sense of respect for others. While ol Tazzerman IS a 'master' at pushing the envelope in regards to proper etiquette, I do so knowingly and even more important, I DO know how to act appropriately when and where it's needed..  Unfortunately, a great percentage of people we meet both in real life and here on Affairlook are lacking in the social graces. Just because you're a guy and a) need affirmation, b) need a place doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't show respect to the folks you come in contact with. I've always found that MOST people, (men/women or what have you) will respond in a MUCH more favorable way if treated with respect. It's only proper eh? -tm |
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I've said this before and I'll say it again, women make HORRIBLE swingers. It's very hard to find a truly 'Poly' woman. I know there are exceptions, G-d love ya, but I'm really taking generalities here. I truly feel like I'm an exception to that. However, that said, yes I need more than just a place. I may have a male's libido but I'm like a woman in that I need foreplay and it needs to start in my mind. ***
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