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Judgment Dakota asked me to go with her to a Gay & Lesbian anti-violence demonstration downtown. Although I support their cause, it's not the sort of event I would go to on my own. But there was the possibility of sex with Dakota afterward. I guess I'll become an activist if there's pussy involved. Who knew? It was a very short demonstration - just walking around a few blocks downtown. Dakota absolutely loved it. As we walked, she was chatting up a woman beside us. They were talking about how great it was to have all the support that they had. The woman asked what group Dakota was with. "We're with a swinger's group," she told the woman, and then mentioned the website. "That's great," said the woman. What... what group did you say it was again?" "A swinger's group," Dakota said again. I didn't hear the rest of the conversation, but I was amused at Dakota's complete openness. I don't know that I would have disclosed that information if anyone had ask. True, the gay & lesbian community might be more open minded than some, but you may still find many among them who would disapprove. Dakota has a picture of her boyfriend, Bruce, on her desk at her office. It was actually taken at a swinger social event and my wife is in the picture too, half hidden but intimately close to Bruce. Her co-workers asked if it was Dakota in the picture and she told them no, it was one of Bruce's girlfriends. That led to other questions and she told her co-workers that she was a swinger in the same way she would tell them that she likes lasagna. Dakota has absolutely no fear of living her life openly. Almost everyone in the lifestyle needs to practice some discretion from time to time. For me, it is a necessity in my conservative military work environment. Also, the way I see it, telling that sort of thing to people who don't need to know it just makes them ask more questions. Even if I were the most vanilla person out there, I still wouldn't feel the need to tell everyone I meet about what my wife and I do in our bedroom. But I understand Dakota's<b> philosophy </font></b>too and it's a kind of beautiful thing. I sometimes wonder what it would be like to go through life without having any need to hide anything from anyone. But as long as I want to avoid the questions and judgments from my co-workers, family, and friends, I will never find out. Oh, and sex with Dakota never happened. It was late and we were both tired and had to work the next day. Hopefully, I'll get naked with her soon. We are, after all, swingers. |
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