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Threesomes: Make Them Happen
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Threesomes: Make Them Happen When one partner suggests a threesome, it’s easy for the other to feel worried about the state of the relationship. Really, a threesome sex fantasy is a compliment. Your ability to talk about a threesome is a good indicator of the strength of your relationship (and communication is key when it comes to making<b> threesomes </font></b>happen). Can you two discuss other sexual topics openly and without embarrassment? If so, this chat is probably going to go a lot more smoothly. Start off by enjoying the concept of a threesome as a sexy secret fantasy between the two of you. If your partner shows interest in an actual threesome, it’s time to hash out the details. How do you envision it? How does she? Setting up some threesome rules are a crucial part of pulling it off. Research shows that women can be awfully protective of their emotional bond with their boyfriend or husband. It’s important to realize that if she feels threatened by your “guest star,” your threesome is going to end pretty badly — and so might your relationship. Talk about the ground rules before the night begins: Are you OK with her kissing the third party?, Etc. Discuss all the potential outcomes so you both know what to expect. Don’t push your partner into anything she’s not ready for. The best way to approach this situation, and an important threesome rule to follow, is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can. Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you. Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex from both women at once), enjoy everything that comes your way. Keeping your hands moving and knowing when to penetrate are important threesome rules. Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to. There are many men in this world who would love nothing more than to watch as their women made love with other women and then motioned them over to join in the fun. If she asks where you can find a woman and highly encourages your participation, don't get overly excited and start panting and salivating. Casually mention a few places that may make the "third party" finding process easier. Friends and/or acquaintances are the best choices, if a female friend of your woman's has shown some sexual interest in her or "swings that way," then your lady can invite her over for dinner, drinks and perhaps a little party for three. Their is usually a trust and sometimes attraction between the 2 women. Keep in mind that sometimes, even when you do everything right, some women will still refuse the invitation. And other times, a woman you just met might surprise you and yours with an interesting offer. But the only way you'll ever find out is by getting out there and discovering that world. Remember you only go around once in life, so don't miss out on any fun.      |
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