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Private Journal  

jaylimik 69M
8 posts
8/29/2008 6:55 pm
Private Journal

Some friends of mine tried to set up a private journal, but found that even people who were not members of Affairlook were able to view their comments, though not the original post. But they got so many views from people looking for something<b> salacious </font></b>and juicy, I thought it would be a good idea to start a thread titled the same. Gotcha! No, this isn't a private journal at all.
If you're also a standard member, we can't exchange contact information on this blog, but we can arrange a date. So, why not go for it?


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
9/13/2008 5:50 am

I went and it is private I can not see the blog it states for friends only.

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


jaylimik 69M
48 posts
9/18/2008 7:40 pm

I told her thanks. Jay


QueenRoyalCourti 72F/67F

8/9/2010 9:29 pm

One thing about the private emails, just allows those that want to tell other place information for conversation it does not cause anyone to get tossed from the site...

I wish I had a better computer or someone that knew things, lol.

When ever you post a message...or blog...at the bottom it allows you to put a pin in it, so it remains on top, second, so forth...

Right under that are little, questions, to where you say who can talk, who can view, and who can answer and so forth. I rarely touch the first two...I think everyone should be able to read...and so forth...just the last one, I always mark for viewing before it shows up...thus I can yes, let the message show up...or not-so it is private. Not sure any of that made sense or counted for much.

Thanks again for you finding our blogs...and chatting is a great place to start. If you need me to cut paste the profile I can do that for you.


jaylimik 69M
48 posts
8/9/2010 10:37 pm

I understand pretty well how the blog set up works. If you cut and paste your profile on this blog, then anyone could read it, not that I have had many visitors over the last year. To make a private blog post, you would have to be in my friend's network in order to even see the real private blog. And the hidden blog(s) you couldn't ever see without my password.

You wrote that you're having trouble opening emails. When I go to the in box, all I have to do to read mine is put my cursor over the subject and left click. Then the text shows up below.

You show my first post to you as pending. You can allow it or delete it, makes no difference to me, I don't really care about the points anymore.


QueenRoyalCourti 72F/67F

8/11/2010 1:00 pm

This message was sent denied....I have since found it...wondered why you had not talked. I will delete what I feel they are saying is wrong. Plus add more on below this message.

8/10/2010 4:10 am
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All post on my private messages will show up as pending...forever...
The only people that can see it is....YOU, and US -me/partner....
Just because you can see your blog when you go in...does not mean anyone else can...it is PRIVATE, just between us...all messages come in as pending...I never allow them, that is kind of a written promise...and why it says private, smile.

I did cut and paste my profile and place it on my blogs...I did not do the personal information...if you need that I will also cut and paste for you.

My lady friend and I are both bbw, married-in more or less sexless marriages, were both bi-yes been together, she is a great lady. She is taller, 53, longer hair (I just cut mine), larger breast than I, not as round of a tush. Im 5 ft 1 in, brown/red hair/gray mixture-I dye, bluish/green eyes, 40C, love handles, round fluffy tush, thick thighs, almost 59.

Being a standard member, we have to have so many points to be allowed to look at profiles (3 a day limit), send emails (3 a day limit), rarely will it let us do more than flirt...no matter how many points we get. The points come from blogging, people looking at the profile, and so forth. It is slow to gather them..and I do believe they subtract some when it is used for the email/profile...However, even as we get enough points to do the email...I can not get into them or send...I use a service provider that prevents me from getting into the mail along with at times giving me difficulty in moving around within the site. It can be fixed, but by doing some mild minor changes to their downloaded protection area...but I am not a computer person...if I tried to follow the instructions, I would mess it up worse I am afraid...I just am not good at computer lingo stuff. I deal with what I have and try to do the best I can. My lady friend can get into mail when we have the points, read, send me copies, and take care of that end...if people write us in the blog private area...they will see it is easy, and works better I think than the mail-that gets lost, and or takes a long time to get.

Therefore, I am not allowed to ask to join your network..even if I have the points, as a free member. From what I have read, it tells me I can not. However, possible that some manner it will slip up and let us, at some point and time. My partner is better at times finding things than I am.

Going to bed to get a little sleep...hope to hear from you sometime.


Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: email Feel free to submit a new comment. This is the above email-I changed

TODAYS email to you or blog...Is at cross roads mall a group from Affairlook, does karaoke night Wed. no you do not have to sing or like some of the singing, lol....it is from 9 till close...some come and go lots hours, because of work the following day. This is a sport bar and grill-public. I go when I can...should be there with several friends this eve. Around a couple-newly found...kissing, he is tall...long gray hair...he is John and she is Diane...tell you that because they are easy to find, lol...I am brandy...they know me...so can point me out...if you should go sometime to zekes. East side of I-35....


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