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What my preferences are...
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What my preferences are... I was thinking about this and I thought I might like to share this with anyone that is running over my profile and blog, so it would make things easier for someone to see what I prefer in a woman. 1) While sex is great, and yeah, I'm game for mostly anything with woman, whether it be a one night stand/one time thing, a couple of times, a friend with benefits situation, or something where I can develop a relationship with someone and then become intimate with that person later on, I prefer a relationship over anything else. Could a one night stand or one time thing develop into a relationship? I'm not saying that couldn't happen, but odds are, it most likely will not. Which leads me to #2... 2) I prefer meeting ahead of time in a public neutral place for the both of us, so we can both be safe. I allows you and I both to feel relaxed. Whether it's at a bar getting a drink for you (sorry, I do not drink, but I'll grab a coke or a sprite or something like that), getting together for something to eat (I'm a gentleman, so my treat, since it's the first time meeting, but if you prefer to split it, I can go with that as well), or my favorite, grabbing a cup of coffee or hot chocolate at say a coffee place, we can then from there talk and get to know each other. Which leads me to #3... 3) Once we meet, I want to get to know you and in turn, you get to know me. Why? Sure, if you just want to meet and go "Ok, let's fuck.", yeah, that might be exciting, but how do I know what you like? If you've been tested for diseases? If you prefer anal sex versus oral sex or strictly penetration sex in your vagina? Or you have a special kink you want me to satisfy? See, I don't know that. And without me asking questions and getting to know you and what you want, what you are looking for exactly, I don't want to make the wrong move or cause you embarrassment, or most importantly, for you to waste your time and my time. Which is why when we meet, we'll need to talk for a while, feel each other out, see if there is an attraction for me as well as there is an attraction for you too. Because I don't want to be with someone that isn't attracted to me. There is nothing worse than having sex with someone that is not only not into it, but not attracted as well, and you end up laying there waiting for it to be over. It's definitely not fulfilling nor is it exciting when you are just going through the motions just trying to get off and you're not attracted to that person. 4) Once we get to know each other and discuss what we both want and are looking for from each other, and IF....IF we decide to get together sexually, I want to know what you like and don't like. So prepare for a lot of questions. And to be fair, ask me as well. Showing you want to get to know me is a turn on and that it means you care enough to know what I'm thinking as well. 5) Some heads up on what I do NOT like: - very rough play, like inflicting severe pain on someone. Can I lightly spank you for the stimulation? Sure. When you want me to lay into you and smack the crap out of you across your ass, face, or body to strictly inflict pain? Absolutely not! So any sadomasochistic stuff is not cool with me. - degrading you and/or me. I will not be participating in humiliating or degrading you in any way shape or form. Nor would I like to referred to as your bitch or calling me a piece of filth or trying to humiliate me in front of others or make me feel degraded. I would not do that to you, so I expect you not do that to me. - There are certain kinks I probably would not be turned on to, like feet, being turned into a sissy, pretending I'm a baby and you taking care of me, being cut, or stuff like being pissed on or peeing on someone, things of that nature. I might be willing to explore something if discussed ahead of time, but just start doing something kinky without talking about it first beforehand. 6) With that said, here are some things I do like: - Sometimes I receive more pleasure giving more than receiving. I love to go down on a woman and for myself, I won't stop until told not to. Plus, when you tell me how well I'm doing, it's a great boost of ego for me. Ladies, huge tip, we men have fragile egos. We might not show it, but if you say the wrong thing, it can greatly damage our ego and how we feel about you. So positive encouragement is greatly appreciated by myself. - Now, just because I like to give, doesn't mean I like to receive. So I love oral as well. Also I love performing anal sex on you, if you are willing. There is something primal about performing anal sex on a woman, and while some woman don't like it, and I understand that, but the act of being inside a woman anally is almost primal in nature, and it's almost like a huge ego boost for myself. Having a woman allow me to fuck her ass, I can't describe the feeling, but it's huge. - Now, my ass is exit only. Is that unfair? Hate to say it but yeah, it's unfair. But I will say this, I've tried a woman sticking a finger in my ass, and only ONE time was it done right. She rimmed me for a while stimulating my ass, all the while stroking my cock, and just when I was about to cum, she then put her pinky finger into my ass gently and wiggled it around, and I'll be damned if it I didn't have one of the most intense orgasms of my entire life. Of course, other times, I've had woman just jam a finger into my ass with no lubrication and expect me to be turned on by it. So just like you women like to be warmed up beforehand and turned on before any ass play happens, guys are the same way. You just can't go in cold. In short, I normally do not like ass play on myself. I just don't normally get turned on with stuff like that, and I know how it feels for me, 99 times out of 100, it does nothing for me. But if you know how to do it, it can be great. - Most importantly...you have to engage my mind. This is not only just for sex. I'm talking about working to stimulate me when we are just alone together. Or being to where we are in a public place and you whisper in my ear "I can't wait to get you alone so I can fuck the shit out of you." Dirty talk is awesome. - Also important, your actions are HUGELY important. If you say you are going to be at a certain place at 7PM, and you show up late, it shows me you don't care. Now, if you call me and say "Hey I'm so sorry, I'm going to be late, and I apologize, but the traffic is bad, and I can't wait to see you soon!" I'm ok with that. If you are constantly late, or do not bother calling at all, and forget and don't bother to show, that shows a lack of respect. I would not do that to you. - I am very affectionate. I need an affectionate woman to match me. Holding hands, hugging, kissing in public, the occasional<b> tickling </font></b>once in a while (or a lot, I love a woman that is ticklish) is cool. I need and crave all of this, so I need a woman that can match that intensity as well. - Finally, I am... a nerd. I've got a goofy and odd sense of humor. Would I love a woman that can be just as nerdy and goofy and like to make me laugh as much as I like to do the same for her? Absolutely! Someone that loves watching a Marvel superhero movie or a sci fi movie with me and be as almost as excited if not even more so when we go to the show together. Or watching the Walking Dead. Or Game of Thrones. Or Agents of SHIELD. Or maybe playing a video game or PC game together. Or playing a board or card game or just doing something the two of us love to enjoy, like going to a comic convention together. Doing nerdy stuff together makes it all the more enjoyable. Well that's all I have for now. Thanks for reading. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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Lots of great information! Thanks for sharing it. Maybe it will inspire others to share as well. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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I almost forgot. I while I am not officially stealing, I got the Idea from another blogger here who did something similar to this, and I thought I would do this for myself to better help anyone reading my profile to better understand who I am and what I want and don't want. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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I think any woman who doesn't get who you are after this great introduction expansion- she doesn't deserve you (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Oh and if you have any questions about my preferences or would like to share, let me know. I'll be glad to answer any questions you may have about what I like or do not like. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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