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Blogs > VicRobe10 > Under Pressure

Meet or NOT  

VicRobe10 54M
16 posts
6/5/2007 10:19 pm
Meet or NOT
Don't you hate when you meet someone online and it seems like the rapport is good and you decide you want to hook up but the other person always has a reason why they can't meet you? If you're serious about meeting, there should be a way it can get done. Don't lead a person along if you're not serious. What do YOU think?
creamie112 54F

6/6/2007 4:03 am

 Well to me if a person always has a reason of why they can't meet, it becomes obvious to me that they have something that they are hiding, like maybe they aren't the person they portray themselves to be. There are alot of fake people on this site and alot of people that like to play games.


LailaLoca 62F
2120 posts
6/7/2007 3:26 pm

 From a woman's perspective, there could be various reasons: One could be fear for their safety, but there are precautions that can be taken that they need to learn about. I've never had any problems as far as this is concerned. Another fear women have is feeling as if they may not live up to a man's expectations. On the flip side, they may fear meeting the man and not feeling any chemistry, and not knowing how to tell him this. They may think that they will be expected to have sex with the guy and may not want to deal with it if they simply don't want to. I'm sure there are also people who join the site for fun, and then are not quite sure what to do if someone actually wants to meet them. I'm sure there are numerous other reasons too.

That said, if it helps: I know you're a big guy, but you're a gentleman and sweetie pie who wouldn't even hurt a fly! Muak!


sxyass4black 62F

6/8/2007 6:20 pm

 LOL.. sorry sounds like you have been living what we all have on this site. Its a crap shoot so to speak, I've experienced it all too. I think too that the better looking you are, the more they fear they wont measure up and really want to see you but are fearing the rejection. Its not all about sex here and some people think regardless of how overweight they are that its ok and you should be with them regardless. Theres so many variables on this site that we will never know why we seem to click with someone after a few emails then they just disappear, maybe its a good thing , we could be luckier than we know.


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