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Blogs > VicRobe10 > Under Pressure

Fear Of Commitment  

VicRobe10 54M
16 posts
1/10/2008 8:51 pm
Fear Of Commitment
Is there a scientific term for this disease? I had a gorgeous bisexual woman who was very much in love with me over the past year. From time to time we invited a few other gorgeous women to join us in bed and always had a great time. The only thing she wanted was for me to commit to her and stop doing my own thing with other women unless she was involved. I just couldn't do it. Most men would be in heaven to have the opportunity to live this life but I just couldn't give up being single. I've been asked on several occassions if I'm fucking crazy, retarded, an idiot, etc, etc. How did I let such a gorgeous woman with a great personality slip away? Is there anyone else out there who let someone slip away and now regretting it??
lady_virtuoso 44F

4/5/2008 4:29 am

 There was a time when I was very much in love with 2 people, for obviously different reasons, but the sex was awesome with both. Neither knew about the other and I wanted all 3 of us to be together, happily fucking each others brains out until one of us had to move on. ( I was military then) I broke it off with one and went with the other and my life in general was pretty miserable.I split last year from the one and life has been good! I think that there are things that you share with someone you love that you would like to keep private and sacred. You couldn't do that if she was involved in all your freaky sex adventures! I think she was wrong for putting you in that predicament, and eventually you would have invited her to star in your sexcapades with other women.
SO no, I don't regret it because the "one" will make you want to be with them only (for the most part)lol and figure out life together.
I hope that your mood has since been lifted because life IS too short and we're here to enjoy it.


creamytruffle 57F

4/22/2010 11:37 pm

 THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS TO KEEP IT REAL. IF SHE TRUELY LOVE YOU SHE WILL ALWAYS TRY TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE BECAUSE FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE GROW WAY PAST THE ACT OF SEX,AND YOU ONLY KNOW WHEN TO SAY WHEN.I KNOW CAUSE ITS BEEN YEARS AND IF YOU CALL ON ME I HOPE I CAN BE THERE FOR YOU FOR ANYTHING..... YOUR SEX GAME IS JUST THAT YOUR SEX GAME BUT FRIENDSHIP IS FOREVER.


VicRobe10 54M
17 posts
1/23/2011 12:46 pm

 Very well put, Chocolatelvr.


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