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Are you Strong Enough?  

skierchick 60F
5222 posts
12/13/2009 12:39 pm
Are you Strong Enough?



I was listening to Sheryl Crow's "Stong Enough" and it reflects how I feel at this moment so deeply........... and it's so wrong, so very wrong! I don't want lies. I will always give you the truth and I aks for truth in return, but.............

Where is the man who will be
"Strong Enough"???




God, I feel like hell tonight
Tears of rage I cannot fight
I'd be the last to help you understand
Are you strong enough to be my man?

Nothing's true and nothing's right
So let me be alone tonight
Cause you can't change the way I am
Are you strong enough to be my man?

Lie to me
I promise I'll believe
Lie to me
But please don't leave

I have a face I cannot show
I make the rules up as I go
It's try and love me if you can
Are you strong enough to be my man?

When I've shown you that I just don't care
When I'm throwing punches in the air
When I'm broken down and I can't stand
Will you be strong enough to be my man?

Lie to me
I promise I'll believe
Lie to me
But please don't leave


SkierChick



WonDumFok 60M
25277 posts
12/13/2009 3:24 pm

ain't gonna do it... nope, no way I refuse to lie to you..

Won


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ChopperDawg8 48M
3 posts
12/13/2009 4:43 pm

nice one!


skierchick 60F
3948 posts
12/13/2009 4:51 pm

WTF??? Is says there are three comments and I can't see a single one!!!! Sometimes this site really sucks!

SkierChick


scolt45 52M

12/13/2009 6:43 pm

no lieing here


rm_sircernuunos 55M
11959 posts
12/13/2009 9:46 pm

I don't lie but I do not talk about stuff I would have to lie about. Usually it is personal stuff I don't wish to share nor should I have too share. So I will not talk about it at all.

I am accused of the opposite, of being too brutally honest, seems some people can't handle the truth and to them I usually say don't ask me questions you don't really want the answer too.

People will believe a lie because the want it to be true or fear it is true.

I am only a stranger the first time...

See my Blog everyone [blog sircernuunos]
Or join this group SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P
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hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/14/2009 5:04 am

So sad you are feeling this way SC.


WhatsUrPleasur 63M

12/14/2009 4:25 pm

That song sends a confusing message.

Be strong for me - but lying to me works too...

Sounds like desperation - and while that is ok in a song, hopefully you don't feel that way in your relationship.

Be wary and be strong no matter what the attachment. Cut off one of his balls if he treats you badly, no matter if you are sub or not.

Don't let anyone make you feel unimportant Ski, if it does then you have every reason to question it.

If I'm reading to much into the lyrics - eh, sorry

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rm_am1298 58M
9 posts
12/14/2009 5:03 pm

I won't lie to you, sorry, can't do it. But i have to say you are a beautiful woman whom i would not throw out of bed (or leave).


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
12/14/2009 5:39 pm

sheryl has a way of saying things we think but don't,won't,or can't say


skierchick 60F
3948 posts
12/14/2009 5:50 pm

    Quoting WhatsUrPleasur:
    That song sends a confusing message.

    Be strong for me - but lying to me works too...

    Sounds like desperation - and while that is ok in a song, hopefully you don't feel that way in your relationship.

    Be wary and be strong no matter what the attachment. Cut off one of his balls if he treats you badly, no matter if you are sub or not.

    Don't let anyone make you feel unimportant Ski, if it does then you have every reason to question it.

    If I'm reading to much into the lyrics - eh, sorry
I agree. The song is confusing. Or at least was confusing to me previously.
To me, in this circumstance, he did not lie to me. He told me the truth. If he had lied, we would still be together (Unless he got caught in the lie) And when I reacted to strongly to the truth and pushed him away, he wasn't strong enough to chase after me, hold me tight and force me to face and accept his truth.

Did I confuse you even more?

SkierChick


skierchick 60F
3948 posts
12/15/2009 4:57 am

    Quoting  :

Did you want to come an cut down a christmas tree?

SkierChick


tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
12/16/2009 8:02 am

I love that song and have used it in my own blog posts a few times. I know SO many girls who sound and feel EXACTLY the same way... -tm

These blogs are only fun if you LEAVE comments!!!

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WhatsUrPleasur 63M

12/16/2009 2:04 pm

    Quoting skierchick:
    I agree. The song is confusing. Or at least was confusing to me previously.
    To me, in this circumstance, he did not lie to me. He told me the truth. If he had lied, we would still be together (Unless he got caught in the lie) And when I reacted to strongly to the truth and pushed him away, he wasn't strong enough to chase after me, hold me tight and force me to face and accept his truth.

    Did I confuse you even more?
Women always confuse me

I would have to read between the lines of your reply and guess that there might be someone else - or at least something unexpected in what he did that caused the break up...

In either case if he wanted you he would have tried to keep you. That is what I would have done. Even if I made an unforgivable mistake I would have tried to get you to talk to me, send flowers, ask for forgiveness via text, email, horse drawn sleigh...

He must have tried to contact you?

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rm_onehothard 59M
264 posts
12/21/2009 9:57 am

To me the words "Strong Enough to be my Man" are a way of asking for unconditional love something it seems not many of us seem capable of giving or else there would be a lot more love ( from forgiveness) rather than war in our relationships

always available --ever ready.


skierchick replies on 12/21/2009 11:09 am:
That's not how I interrpret it at all. I just want someone who isn't intimidated by me. I'm strong. He needs to be stronger than me!

rm_zuuky75 66M
11 posts
8/30/2010 5:12 pm

my ex always called me her rock, except SHE turned me to dust for the love of my son.
I think I understand your reasoning.


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