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A Dog's Rule of Life  

rm_loveslilies 57F
27092 posts
2/12/2009 11:19 am
A Dog's Rule of Life




An eminent teacher and thinker once expressed his<b> philosophy </font></b>of life:

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"When it all boils done to the essence of truth," the philosopher said, "one must live by a dog's rule of life": "If you can't eat it or screw it...PISS ON IT!"




Now I'm trying to figure out what kind of he's referring to the actual canine or the one with thumbs

I wanted to put a pic of one of my dogs with this but they are so camera shy. I can get them to sit still, just not long enough to get a good pic, but heck that's better than when I got them both.. back then they definitely way out of control.

I'm just worried warm weather is finally on its way (YEAH !!!! ) and my pit bull is better like I said, but has a way to go.



I've read all kinds of training stuff and none of it has worked, he's recognizes us as the dominate in other situations just not when it comes to not jumping and playing way to rough with the
us.

I hope we can get him where he needs to be or we might have to get rid of him I do not want to do this he is one cool and we love him to pieces !

I say let's put him on a chain, that's better than getting rid of him but hubby disagrees. Now I hate to see dogs chained up, but then again its better than him loosing his home and family.
and God forbid something bad happens...

I think as long as we let him loose ever day for exercise and give him his normal amount of affection, attention that he would adjust, .. I have also thought about only chaining him up after he displays unacceptable behavior, my thinking is sorta like with how we give time outs, corner time and such..then letting him loose after sometime, then if he doesn't misbehave we treat him ???

I have to admit I am kinda confused on this one.
and my back can not handle when he jumps on me, much less making him stay down when he is being so active.. sighs..

What do you guys think ?

LL


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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/12/2009 12:06 pm

You say your dog is better trained than when you first had him, so that must be a step in the right direction. Pit bulls are strong, active dogs to handle at the best of times, so I can see how difficult it must be with your back. I hope you find a compromising solution.


rm_mvsmike 66M
12785 posts
2/12/2009 1:09 pm

My chow, golden retriever had a bad habit of jumping up. I started putting my knee into his ribs. Not with my force but the force he exerted. He eventually figured it out and stopped jumping on people.
My X decided to be a smart ass and keep him after our separation. Now he has been biting people. She is talking of having him put down. She called me and told me. After 3 years and I have an apartment now with no carpet I can not take him. Your decisions get you where you are at live with them.


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horny4770 67M

2/12/2009 1:49 pm

Sorry, no words of wisdom today. I’ve never had a pit bull personally, but I know some animals are more aggressive and spirited than others and need a slightly firmer approach without deviation. I hope you find the right method.

H.


SensuallyThine 68M
5300 posts
2/12/2009 6:24 pm

I never had dogs as a kid, so I've been trying to catch up as an adult. I do know that my little Teo (go to my blog for a pic) needs exercise, and that he behaves better when I give him regular walks. But, as for training a dog, I suck, and I know I suck.

Good luck with your dog, sorry I couldn't be more help.


REDC41 60M

2/12/2009 8:18 pm

Invest in a very large dog cage for inside the house.When he does bad behavior say bad dog go to your cage and give him a 15 min.timeout.Before long when he does somethin bad he will recognize the behavior and automatically go to his cage.Eventually the bad behavior will cease.

It worked for my Beagles and my Staffordshire/American Pit bull mix that I have now.It also worked for the chowchow,the sheperd wolf mix and the aussie sheperd I had in the past.The only dog it didn't work for was the mini-rat terrier I had.

Good luck training your dog.Pit-bulls are great family dogs but need more exercize,socilization and stimulation than other breeds.The upside is they are probably one of the smartest and most loyal.

Rog


digdug41 56M

2/13/2009 2:44 am

LOve I wouldn't have a clue I have never owned a dog. Good luck with him

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:19 am

    Quoting  :

I know.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:21 am

    Quoting  :

I'm not against one but no way my husband would ever go for it. he thinks its cruel even though I told him its not that bad..

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:23 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    You say your dog is better trained than when you first had him, so that must be a step in the right direction. Pit bulls are strong, active dogs to handle at the best of times, so I can see how difficult it must be with your back. I hope you find a compromising solution.
he seems very trainable its just this jumping and playing rough that he's gotta quite. I've been trying since we got him but I think he sense my weakness in my back.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:25 am

    Quoting rm_mvsmike:
    My chow, golden retriever had a bad habit of jumping up. I started putting my knee into his ribs. Not with my force but the force he exerted. He eventually figured it out and stopped jumping on people.
    My X decided to be a smart ass and keep him after our separation. Now he has been biting people. She is talking of having him put down. She called me and told me. After 3 years and I have an apartment now with no carpet I can not take him. Your decisions get you where you are at live with them.
I've been trying that he still thinks I am playing with him and man my back can't take doing that to much he's a huge pit
sorry bout your dog

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:26 am

    Quoting horny4770:
    Sorry, no words of wisdom today. I’ve never had a pit bull personally, but I know some animals are more aggressive and spirited than others and need a slightly firmer approach without deviation. I hope you find the right method.

    H.
thanks H, I hope we find something and soon too.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:28 am

    Quoting  :

so far the knee thing has not worked
nothing has worked.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:28 am

    Quoting  :

can't afford a class.
it stinks.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:31 am

    Quoting  :

yeah chaining can do that but not if done since birth animals are very adjustable beings. I dont wanna do that its our last resort. I still say its better than being put to sleep, right now no kill shelters are full
I can not afford a class right now, things are real rough.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:34 am

    Quoting SensuallyThine:
    I never had dogs as a kid, so I've been trying to catch up as an adult. I do know that my little Teo (go to my blog for a pic) needs exercise, and that he behaves better when I give him regular walks. But, as for training a dog, I suck, and I know I suck.

    Good luck with your dog, sorry I couldn't be more help.
thanks Sensual, he already gets plenty of exerrcise he roams our half acre out back, so that isn't the problem.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:37 am

    Quoting REDC41:
    Invest in a very large dog cage for inside the house.When he does bad behavior say bad dog go to your cage and give him a 15 min.timeout.Before long when he does somethin bad he will recognize the behavior and automatically go to his cage.Eventually the bad behavior will cease.

    It worked for my Beagles and my Staffordshire/American Pit bull mix that I have now.It also worked for the chowchow,the sheperd wolf mix and the aussie sheperd I had in the past.The only dog it didn't work for was the mini-rat terrier I had.

    Good luck training your dog.Pit-bulls are great family dogs but need more exercize,socilization and stimulation than other breeds.The upside is they are probably one of the smartest and most loyal.

    Rog
thanks for the feedback
he's an outside dog so inside cage won't work maybe we put it outside we love this dog he is the smartest most loving dog we have ever owned actually had any contact with he just so active strong and big ! and we have lots of kids over whne the weather is warmer to swim.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 3:57 am

    Quoting digdug41:
    LOve I wouldn't have a clue I have never owned a dog. Good luck with him
never owned a dog ? you are missing out on something special Digs.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 8:56 am

    Quoting  :

he's close to a year, we think.. we got him from friends who found him half dead and lost, they were gonna take him to the pound

We have been doing that with barely a result, he sometimes even pushes back with his head when we do it.. who knows why he is a very cool dog and smart too.

thanks for your input and for the visit

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 10:01 am

keepin him in the yard isnt the problem its keep him off us and guests that is the problem and his rough play as in pulling and such on ya
though I know they have ones for that as well. he still says no.

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/13/2009 12:00 pm

    Quoting  :

oh I know hes young but we have a pool and have tons of guests over in the summer so I want to least keep him off the kids.

that clicker sounds like a good thing I'll tell him about that one
thanks for all your help

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
2/14/2009 5:43 am

    Quoting  :

thanks rf
we are doing all of those things, I'm just worried when the kids start coming around this summer, he can hurt someone just by jumping on them... no way we can afford training classes anywhere I think we have decided on using a clicker for the jumping and playing rough problem. my shih zu was severely abused and sounds alot like your poor shep. he's doing great now hes to the point he almost enjoys new people not just tolerating them.

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