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Blogs > Tennbroad > This just ain't working

What makes a man say and do hurtful things?  

Tennbroad 70F  
795 posts
2/2/2014 8:41 pm

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2/15/2014 9:53 pm
What makes a man say and do hurtful things?

I am sad right now. I have a dear friend that was in love with a man she thought loved her but he had one flaw. She was a plus size woman and he could not let his heart or his mind open up enough to love her for her. I have been in her shoes a lot in my 60 years and even though my size and my race has prevented men from loving me why couldn't he just tell her the truth? Why do we as adults have a problem with the truth? She is so hurt she deleted her profiles from this site. I really don't blame her I have done that too but I refused to be dogged out but a man that doesn't have a heart or can not open his mind to the beauty that is on the inside as well as the outside. I am just overwhelmed at the way we treat each other. This is a site for love and fun. Don't look like a lot of fun going on now.

Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
2/3/2014 10:29 am

 Thank you for answering. This is one of those blogs I figured would not get an answer.


rm_Radioman608 73M
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2/6/2014 1:31 pm

 Over the years I have discovered one thing that I know is true; appearance may get you to the first date but it does not have a great deal to do with love or passion. That is made up of many things that most of us describe as chemistry. Some of the most beautiful women in the world are plus sized or of color. As for me, I look at the total package, not the individual pieces. As for your friend, I don't think her man was in love with her. If he was, he would not have left. You are right about him not telling the truth but so many of us, men and women, do that. Sometimes because we are ashamed of our thoughts and sometimes because we want to spare the other person. I would love to find a woman who really says what she means and asks for what she wants, not as a demand but just in a conversation sharing herself.

I have been rambling, sorry.

Remember one thing, If you believe you are beautiful and sexy, then you are.


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
2/15/2014 9:53 pm

 you were not rambling thank you my darling for being so insightful and thoughtful. I am the bomb


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